You are a 25-year-old guy with a great job.You have a lover 12 years
older than you.She has been helping you for a long time with patience
and kindness.Recently,you have found a girl in her 20s ,very attractive and intelligent working as your assitant.Amazingly,she becomes your secret lover.Who will indeed become your wife?
Sure you love both of them(in fact the guy is me).
2007-03-02 21:57:39 · 12 answers · asked by Eugene Latt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the younger girl is your assistant? hmm, sounds like she might just be trying to advance her career. I'd stay with the older woman.
2007-03-02 22:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Luviticus 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you!!! If you were going to marry anyone it should be the older woman who stood by you with love and patience. After 12 yrs how can you be so inconsiderate?
2007-03-02 22:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dear no way that your heart is for both.. i am sure u don't have two heart to love...
for me the one she is help u all the time, u must to fight for her that she helps u... don't even cheat on her in thinking and the one she is attractive and intelligent will disappear because she will care about outside more than u..
u just remind me about a man that i helped him allot after that he cheated on me... he is loser now he don't have anyone.. because God gave him a chance and he refuse it..
do u think if u will go with the attractive one the one that help u will stay with u.. or leave u to the dogs to eat your heart, that never be for her...
good luck take care of your only heart...
2007-03-02 22:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go with the younger one now and set the older one free before you hurt her more . As she ages she will become less attractive to you and it will be harder for her to find someone after she reaches her prime. You already showed your preference for a younger one, so if it is not this one it will be another young one later.
2007-03-02 22:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kenneth L 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The older one will take care of you. The one in her 20's dont trust her im speaking from experience.
2007-03-02 22:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by vegas13 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go with the older chick. She's more expirenced and won't have to leave you to go "find herself" in a few years.
2007-03-02 22:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by seahorse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'll stick to the one i really love.i'm sure there is always that one that you love more,in a relationship its always 70-30 or 60-40 there is always that one who will give love more.it may be you or the girl,it's the right formula for a successful relationship.
2007-03-02 22:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by sheela g 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
the girl who is 20 years old is suitable
2007-03-02 22:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by sleepwalker 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Two-timing jerk! I hope the both of them realize what you're doing and leave you.
2007-03-02 22:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Damn hard to choose man but i really woulda choose .....Follow your heart....DamN
2007-03-02 22:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Hood-Star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋