We are in love. But he still loves his wife. He loves us both. The only matter is we are far apart as we live in different country and I will go for him, for my true love.
2007-03-02 21:44:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some warning signs should be going off with you. If he cheated on his wife he will certainly cheat on you.
2007-03-02 22:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you love about this man? What has this man done for you? This man is willing to cheat on his wife that he has taken vows with until death do then part to have an affair? Does he have no honor. Why would you be with man that would cheat on his wife? Lets say he finally leaves his wife for you and you guys start a new life, and in a couple of years he does the same thing to you. You can't get mad at him for cheating on you because that is what he did to his wife for you. What comes around goes around and what your doing is playing with fire.
There are so many single men out there, you need to start looking for a single man instead of wasting your time on a married man that will obviously not leave his wife and is just using you. Just think what will happen when his wife finds out, you'll be know as as the home-wrecker!
2007-03-03 06:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, honey, he is playing you like a fiddle, and you're letting him. An obvious clue is that he's moving in with her, not you and I'm sure he tells you "he loves you". Well, if he really loved you (which I doubt), he wouldn't be living with his wife. It's as simple as that.
I'd be willing to bet that when he's with you, you spend most of your time going at it like rabbits. If that's true, it only confirms what I've said above.
You need to grow up, smell the coffee and move on. The train has left the station and you ain't on it! Find yourself a good and decent man that will treat you right, one that will make you the one and only person in their life.
2007-03-03 06:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid. He doesn't love either of you. His only true love is himself and his own satisfaction. What do you think marriage is all about? This man has promised to be with his wife forever and to forsake all others, for her. You are luring him into the greatest sin there is against another, in marriage. You should think about how his wife must feel and show some respect for her, and for yourself. If you keep on doing what you're doing, bad things are going to happen to both of you.
2007-03-03 06:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See how is treating his poor wife now that can be you next Why would you think he would treat you any differently? He is a married man and you are a home wrecker.Maybe some day you will get married and some loose women will come along and snatch him straight of you and I'm sorry but its a pain you need to feel to truly understand
2007-03-03 05:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to occupy your time, if he is being unfaithful to his wife, he is certainly not going to treat you any better. You need to evaluate your self. Take a serious and honest look at your self and what you are saying. He is married and not respecting he commitment that he has already made. Run as fast as you can, and find someone who is honest and available. God bless****
2007-03-03 06:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could he be your true love if he is also hers? so he will have two loves, in different countries. what happens when his wife finds out and he is forced to leave u? i myself believe in karma, where if u cause a bad to happen to someone, or hurt them, that the hurt will return to u. think u better distance yourself from this one, and find someone who can and will offer marriage,this one is already taken. what is really in it for u?
2007-03-03 05:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing it the way you are doing it will even make you MORE SAD of a girl...
You said it yourself... ((((((He loves his wife))))))
So what makes you believe you will have a winner situation with him any time ahead from now...!!!
You need to go back in history and ask yourself:
WHY HE GOT MARRIED TO HER?
WHERE WERE YOU THEN?
WHEN DID YOU GET IN LOVE WITH HIM?
HOW ISSUES WERE DEVELOPED BETWEEN YOU TWO?
HOW MUCH DOES HE LOVE HIS WIFE?
HOW MUCH DOES HE LOVE YOU?
ARE YOU GOING TO DESTROY HIS MARRIAGE LIFE?
ARE YOU GOING TO BE THE REASON FOR DIVORCE WITH HIS CURRENT WIFE?
DOES HE REALLY HAVE THE WILL TO BUILD ANOTHER LIFE WITH YOU INSPITE OF HIS CURRENT / EXISTING LIFE?
HOW HE WILL REGARD YOU WHEN PROBLEMS START DEVELOPING BY THE DAYS TO COME?
IS IT WORTH CHASING A PHANTOM?
ARE YOU GOING TO BE FOR THE KEEPS FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH HIM?
HOW COULD YOU BE ASSURED HE WILL NOT TREAT AS SUCH WITH A THIRD WOMAN SHOWING UP AT A LATER STAGE?
HAD YOU BEEN IN THIS SITUATION, HOW WOULD YOU REGARD THE INTRUDER WOMAN INTO YOUR MARRIAGE LIFE?
DOES HE REALLY LOVE HIS WIFE?
DOES HE REALLY LOVE YOU?
DOES HE LOVE HIMSELF ONLY?
IS HE YOUR TRUE LOVE?
THE TERM POLYGAMY...IS IT VALID FOR HIM ?
Answering above questions will enable you taking a closer & better look on how it really looks to an outsider like me...
If you are willing to accept it in the first place, and it is a familiar concept to him in the second place; i.e., Polygamy, then YOU NEED TO START SERIOUS CONVERSATION WITH HIM ON IT as a decisive & final feedback....
This will prove to you how much he loves you or his wife, and how serious he is on having this relation with you...
If he doesn't belong to the world where Polygammy belongs, then be assured you will end up loosing if he TRUELY LOVES or PLANS TO KEEP HIS WIFE...
On the other hand, you need to understand that HE IS THE WORST KIND OF ALL...Showing how much he loves his wife and still takes you as a Secondary Option AT HIS FREE WILL under the concept of LOVE...
I advise you to wake up before it is too late when REGRET WILL NOT DO YOU ANY GOOD than deep hurt...
Observing the situation as it looks, I can see he is already away from his wife / family....and following him wherever he is is an escape for him in the first place...
If he was man enough to declare his love to you, he would have declared it FIRST to his wife and all those around him in case Polygammy stands as a Rule in his life.....otherwise he will be having an affair with you with NOTHING GUARANTEED to you THEREAFTER...
Look at the whole picture and DO NOT BE THE VICTIM...where your LOVE to him will soon and surely turn to hatred....
Take care of yourself, and STOP BEING SAD FOR YOURSELF..
In all cases, you know all about him as you MAY THINK now, but you are only judging him from a distance... Once you are both under one ceiling and behind closed doors, you MAY change your opinion drastically...
You know the whole situation I HOPE, and accordingly I ask you kindly to re-consider for YOUR OWN SAKE...
Take care of yourself, and turn to a HAPPY GIRL...
Why shouldn't you be happy ???????
2007-03-03 06:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is apparently not willing to leave his wife for you. You need to go away and stay out of his life. He is married! Get over it. Stay away. You are playing with fire. Don't go there. Move on.
2007-03-03 05:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your true love if he still loves his wife.
You shouldn't travel to a different country just to be turned down because that's most likely what's going to happen.
He doesn't love you if he still loves his wife.
How are you going to live with him if he isn't going to leave her?
2007-03-03 05:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋