2007-03-02 19:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get out of the house,,,meet people,,,have fun
2007-03-02 20:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are never outgoing in the first place, you can try chatting. Just make sure that you go to a nice clean chatroom. Most of the time, the conversations are casual, but you will never know when you will chance upon a great friend in the making. Just be honest and act natural. Say the right words. In here, you have the choice of letting them see you via webcam. It is also a great way to express yourself without fear of being judged. Later on, when you found a particular person that interests you, you can divulge on more information about yourself. Live and let live! Good luck!
2007-03-03 05:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by aLLie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite possibly one of the most difficult things I had to overcome in my life. And yes, it is something you must overcome. What works for everyone else may not work for you but I can give you a few pointers that helped me out a lot when I was not social.
1. Be confident in yourself, I can't stress this enough, if you don't believe you can make friends then you never will.
2. Keep your head up. When you are in a situation where you are around new people this shows confidence in yourself. It also shows that you are listening and paying attention to the other people in the group and opens up room for you to enter the conversation.
3. Be outgoing. This is the hardest to overcome. Starting conversations with new people is never easy for someone who is shy, but you will never make friends without talking to people.
4. Join the crowd, don't just linger around by yourself.
These are just a few things you can try, I am sure that if you just get out there you will meet plenty of people that share your interests and would love to have you as a friend. Hang in there.
I'm pullin' for ya, we're all in this together.
2007-03-03 04:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by my_craig1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! I live in on a military base overseas and my friends are constantly leaving...we're the last ones to go. When I need advice...I usually turn to my mom. Even though, sometimes she can't give me an answer...it's just nice to have someone to listen to your problems or even just listen to what you have to say to make you feel better. I wish you the best!!!
2007-03-03 04:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a club for them. It's called friends of those who have no friends.
2007-03-03 08:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish to have friends or make new friends, a good way is to be a friend first.
2007-03-03 04:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by khorat k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
for me you need to try going out..try to meet people and enjoy their company..dont make yourself alone..coz for me everybody needs someone..specially friend.. i believed in the saying that no man is an island...no man stand alone... we cannot enjoy our life by being alone..we cannot feel the beauty of being alive when you didnt go and make yourself happy with someone..please enjoy your life..having friends and to be with relatives..i believed also that having friend not necesarilly means you need somone outside your family..even your sisters or brother of your parents can be your friend..look around and you'll no that you are not alone and you have your friend there,,you just dont want to try to look for them. always be happy..enjoy your life...
2007-03-03 04:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by i care about you! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to pick up at least one or two and retain them .They will of use till the end or at the end.
2007-03-03 04:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by NQS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you're better off than having false friends
2007-03-03 04:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is all you need, start chatting , chat to me even
2007-03-03 04:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by deardaveuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋