we met on net n become gud frens, n exchanged no.s n pics. he love me n i don't. i'm happily married. since 2 days he is not talking to me, no taking my phone call n not coming online too..i'm missing him as i got use to talk to him since 2 months daily..getting very confused why he is doing this? i've never ask him to be with me, if he wld have told me that he does not want to speak to me in future, i wld have left him alone but now this thing is irritating me so much. I'm getting frustrated!!
2007-03-02 18:18:56 · 23 answers · asked by sanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well the fact that you miss him is naturally , you have been talking to this person regularly for two months and its almost a habit, it is going to take time to get over it, also perhaps you both were not viewing the relationship from the same prespective, you wanted a friend and he probablely wanted more. Well in a way its good, you should move on with your life. Good and bad experiences are part of life, life would be dull withouts ups and downs. Take this in your stride and get over it , the world is a bigger and better place and maybe goods things are round the corner.
2007-03-02 20:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by abbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married, and happy! So why do you miss this guy? He just wants to play games, the net! Be smart and happy, because he is well aware that you are married and doesn't want any problems, actually it is a good thing! He will come around, I know that feeling but I am not in a very happy marriage, and you feel that way when you don't get enough attention from your partner, and it's fun to have someone to talk to rather than the people you have in your circle of life. I have many male friends, and the bad thing is they always hit on me, and they know I am married...So that is why I like friend's in the net, safer if you don't want physical contact, and just friends...He will end up calling you, just don't wait around, relax!
2007-03-02 18:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by HOPE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that he just disapeared because you didn't want anything with him. And he's probably hurt- just maybe.
Now, it's just been two days, girl. he has a life other than talking to you. He has responsibilities, too. Thus, he must fulfill them. He might be working with a different and new schedule. He might be with his frieds, family, doing his taxes, I don't know. Like I said before, it's been only two days! You said it yourself!
Talking to this guy daily obviously made you miss him. It seems like you somehow build a strong friendship with him. But you have a husband to make you happy, girl. Have you talk to him lately? How does he feel towards you missing an unknown guy you met on-line? A guy you've never met in person? Have you ever ask how does this makes him feel? you gotta think abou thim too. He's your husband, girl. The man of your life! So, talk to him more than this guy that you haven't even met.
Girl, the guy can be one person on-line and another one in person. It has only been two months. You can't say you know him well to say actual facts about this guy's character. In other words, is he being frank about what he says to you.
So don't worry about a guy you haven't met. You have a man already. Unless he doesn't mind, I don't know. Only you do. But I guess you can give him time to reply to you. Yet, you shouldn't worry. Talk to your husband. The one who's your lover, heart keeper, and companion or best friend. Good Luck!
2007-03-02 19:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like even though you're married, you put yourself out there as if you were available. (Lonely people tend to do that, although they internally deny it.) If you were happily married, you wouldn't be spending every day the last two months talking on line with another man. You desperately crave the attention he gave you and now that he's made his intentions clear, you've let him know that you never had any romantic interest in him. He's moved on to greener pastures (someone who is single). And you now are wondering why you can't have your cake and eat it too (you want to be "happily married" and have someone write everything you want to hear and give you the attention you don't get at home over the internet). Suggest getting a hobby that's not online.
2007-03-02 18:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just been 2 days? Well, that could be anything. Maybe he is busy or sick or on vacation. But that is beside the point. You shouldn't be corresponding with this guy if you are happily married. That is NOT good! I'm hoping that this guy is trying to move on because he knows that there's no chance of a romance between you two and he doesn't want to try breaking up a marriage. If it has only been 2 days and you are really bothered, then that tells me you are addicted to this correspondence. Forget him. It's for the best.
2007-03-02 18:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I can understand this is natural the way you feel n I vaue your concern. Let us look to the reality n basics we should not forget. You are right because you are emotional. Give some time may be things change. It is very difficult to make true friends{thats a fact} people take you for granted. I always give and dont ask still I am ......So my friend wait n watch n dont loose heart. Little meditation is required. God only guides us otherwise this world though beautiful but not worth living. Hve positive approach. My suggestion
2007-03-02 19:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U hav riten u r happy married. he is ur frien n fren alwas thnk 4 frnd be hapy. he hav stopd 4 u 2 b hapy 4 longtime. May be he dont like to be a problem from him to you in future
2007-03-02 18:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by asif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen this guy is doing all he can to forget your magic and your charm! So give him a break and think about your hubby now. And if he actually values your friendship, he will get in touch with you again.
By the by, are you sure you dont have a 'thing' for him?
If you do (be honest to yourself, yaar), forget this guy and go on a vacation with your husband.
2007-03-02 18:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this man only wanted to "get some", now he sees that you were only looking for a friend and are happily married, and so he is moving on to prey on some poor other woman. Take your loving husband and your dignity and forget this man... he's not that much of a friend if he acts like that.
It sounds like you may have accidentally lead him on if you didn't make your intentions clear from the very beginning... in the future, be sure to make it clear to people that you're ONLY looking for friends and that you're already in a happy relationship.
2007-03-02 18:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Lulu (: 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You led him on as he apparently thought you were into him and single. Now he knows your not and doesn't want to rock the boat or he thinks your a cheat and has lost interest. Why you trading pics with men online if your married? I doubt your husband would approve of this practice.
-NmD!
2007-03-02 18:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋