tell my mom i got my period i'm worried because it started in sep of last year. i know i should tell her but i just can't, i'm depressed and i can't stand people so i hate touchy feelie stuff, i only think boyfriends should be sweet like that and i know that if i tell her she'll get all touchy feelie and momish and i hate that. so what should i do?
2007-03-02 18:09:57 · 5 answers · asked by anime_manga_geek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is there a reason you need to tell her? If there isn't, then don't..... But just say "Mom, I dont' want you gettin all touchy feelie on me, but I got my period and it's not a big deal, so don't make it one."
2007-03-02 18:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly , why do you feel that you have to tell your mom ? This is a personal issue and if you are coping with it and everything is ok then it's fine to keep it private.
What concerns me is that you seem to be angry with her. Maybe something she's done has hurt you somehow.I think that she probably feels the tension between you and wanting to hug you is her way of trying to reach out to you and make things right again. I know it's hard to understand why parents do things the way they do . I can tell you from my own experience both as a daughter and a mother that parents are not always right .They make mistakes .... sometimes pretty big ones .
I know this is kind of heavy for the question you've asked but i share this with you because i know how hurtful it is to carry such anger.No daughter naturally wants to be without her mother in her life .... we all need that relationship.
If what I've said here applies to you in anyway , please try and talk to her about what's really bothering you.These things can easily escalate and become a long term heartache.I bet your mom wants nothing more than to bridge the distance between you and make it right again.It's up to you but it is sooooo worth it to try !! ....... wishin you all the best , take care : )
2007-03-02 19:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept your womanhood and really be one by telling your mother. maybe you can tell her beforehand that you dont want her to be all momish about it so that she is aware of how you feel before you give her the news of your period.
2007-03-02 19:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just tell her and its apart of growing up and getting older u shouldnt be ashamed u should be happy ur maturing and getting older ur becoming a woman!!!! BE PROUD
2007-03-06 11:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
" mom i've had my peiod since september"
she'll be upset you didnt tell her
2007-03-02 18:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋