I seem to be getting a lot of attention lately. This week, girls just popped up out of nowhere, flirting with me. It's making things very hard to concentrate. Yesterday, a girl sat next to me and kept 'accidentally' grazing me. She dropped her pencil, and put her hand on my thigh when she bent down to pick it up. Another girl living in my dorm keeps going out of her way to speak to me every morning, making up things to ask me about. There's the girl from the dining hall with the beautiful smile, and the girl from the food court in the union who makes sure to touch my hand when she gives me my food. Don't get me wrong I'm flattered and loving the attention. It just makes it hard to concentrate with it. How can I get my mind off of these women?
2007-03-02 18:09:57 · 6 answers · asked by pjonkml 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You poor thing! Ask these girls out- show them a good time and get it out of your system!
Your only young once!
=o)
2007-03-09 09:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by KerBaer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you have to start talking to these women, right now they are playing head games with you through touch. By talking to them you are approaching the situation on a different level and by doing so you will be finding out more about why they do what they do. Maybe they feel sorry for you and you are reading too much into it which is also occupying more of your time and throwing you off the game plan of doing well in school and passing your year. Soon you will be given more clues as to their interest in you, and since you are there to study and write exams etc. you can use your time for that and stop thinking now why did she do that or this or something else. Concentration happens when the mind is under control and not the emotions. You sort of sound like you want a relationship so maybe that will allow you to concentrate on studying too. Look for a girl or a guy who puts studies as number one and try to link up with them, that way you will not be a sitting duck for other women to flouse with you. ( flouse = use femine wiles on, a way for a female to see how far her sexual bounds extend ) Not too many of the things you mentioned are going to happen with another woman by your side. It is like women have boundaries while other women are in the house, but once they are removed as in your case, it is open house and anything goes. Sort of like walking down the street at night alone as opposed to walking your German Shepherd by your side especially if he or she looks like they belong with you. Once you establish this link your concentration problems will soon disappear. Now get busy and study hard!
2007-03-10 09:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously are very beautiful. I would be very flattered. However, you can easily let them down if the attention is getting to you. Start talking about a girl you just started dating.
2007-03-03 02:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jay S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the attention.
2007-03-03 03:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by skull101a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and concentrate on the more important things in life - like ... concentrating??? :-)
2007-03-09 09:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cheng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me your secret. But seriously, you're not a dude. So it shouldn't be that difficult.
2007-03-03 02:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Enigmatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋