Has anything happened w/ both partys or just 1 u wd. like to be different. List some bad and show where good came out of that bad experience
2007-03-02 17:46:20 · 5 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would take back all the years of childish, petty arguments over stupid little things. All the resentment and damage it caused was soooo not worth it. We are slowly learning to get over the past, but man is it hard.
2007-03-02 17:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when bad happens the good ALWAYS comes out it never fails. I never knew until my daughter told me that my X always wanted to be with me. He wanted noone else and he tried so hard for us. I could see the tears in her eyes and I had to turn around quick so I wouldnt break down in front of her. I have to remain strong. I believe more than ever that relationships take HARD work, its not easy. The easy way out is to leave. I finally get what Dr Laura is saying you just stick it out because all that matters are the kids. Also when you do change and give a little more than that person wants to do even more for you and the family. If I could do it all over again with the knowledge I have now i would in a heart beat. All he's ever done was for me and the kids and it took an evil girlfriend of his to ruin our frienship then more stuff, it never ends,bottom line, the grass is NEVER EVER greener on the other side. True love will always prevail.
2007-03-03 01:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by lovebug 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More time. We have a one year old, and despite our efforts, due to the responsibilities of baby, work and home we are fighting a lot and drifting apart. I know we truly love each other and our marriage is built on a firm foundation so we will make it, but life is hard right now. I know it is neither of our fault but it still sucks. I just wish we had more time to devote to each other and our relationship.
2007-03-03 02:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by MI Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make my wife more positive. She's so negative! The good that has come from it is really rather self serving....I wake up every morning and try to make her feel like a queen, make her life easier, challenge her to be better, and just plain make her smile.
2007-03-03 01:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by McHales_navy_22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would have cut my ex husbands pecker off when i found out he was cheating!
2007-03-03 01:52:13 · answer #5 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋