2007-03-02 17:45:30 · 26 answers · asked by use2bbeautiful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your gut instinct. Trust yourself - there is a reason you are suspicious.
2007-03-02 17:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by MI Mommy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You could ask him..if he is cheating on you..he most likely is not going to give you a straight answer..so I would ask the next best thing besides him..His friends..because most likely if he is cheating..he is going to use his friends to cover it all up..keep you in the dark about it..in my experience the friends..the co-workers all know about it..the person being cheated on..is always the last one to know..because everyone else already knows about it..here is your clue..your sex life does a 90 degree turn..all of a sudden..he can not get enough wants to have sex all the time..or..he starts pushing you away from him and never wants to have sex with you..does not return your love and affection..
2007-03-02 19:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by noga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on his actions. I say ask him straight out, if he beats around the bush or gets pissed off, then he's deffinatly either been doing some heavy flirting or he's cheating. There is always nice ways so he doesnt feel that you have no trust. You can just simply look him in the eyes and ask if he love you, then if he is and will always be true. If he looks away and seems like he has to think about it,,, well it's not science! It's important to always communicate feelings with the other person. The truth will always come out.
2007-03-02 17:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by golden1 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have yet to meet a woman who has been cheated on who didn't feel it in her gut. That would be clue number one. That is what clued me in on my ex. The other woman really wanted to blow the whistle on him too, and eventually she told him she was going to tell me (I knew her). He freaked out and told me. Sometimes the other woman will leave clues if they are ever in his car or at your place (a misplaced earring or other piece of jewelry is classic).
2007-03-02 17:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's always going to be your gut telling you. There is no litmus test. A skillful cheater knows how not to make the stupid mistakes a amateur would make. So it will be your gut that clues you in on what is going on and then you will have to do battle within yourself before you can even begin to do battle with them.
2007-03-02 17:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
if you feel that he isgive him the benfit of toh doubt . ask him and if you ant satifided than follow your heart and tell him you dont trust him and go from there. but if you are like most then ceck out his stories get all your piroterys straight and the confront him but the best thing to do is to go with yourheart it wont lead you wrong bcause only you can tell trust yourself.it all will comeout in the endyou"ll see.GOD LUCK!!
2007-03-02 17:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Finding reciepts in the trash can outside for 2 burgers not one. His cell phone if he is paranoid about you usining it now and then. Mileage on the car
2007-03-02 17:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by inquirer 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask.
Sorry, but if there's a reason you're suspicious then he's probably not trust worthy, and if he's not cheating now, it's probably just a matter of time until he is. If you can't trust him, leave him.
2007-03-02 17:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by Canadian Girl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Instinct
2007-03-02 17:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
He is not homely and he is on his cellphone most of the time and he doesn't allow you to check his phone.
2007-03-03 03:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋