I feel like this is a good rule to live by....what is your opinion?
2007-03-02 17:29:52 · 14 answers · asked by friday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've heard that saying...what goes around comes around, well that goes for you too! If he can cheat with you on someone else, he is certainly capable of cheating on you. Dating is for you to find out what qualities you are looking for in a lifetime partner, so if you don't have a ring on your finger, you can date or see whoever you want, and cheating isn't that big a deal; however if you have a ring on your finger, or the other woman who is being cheated on has one, then cheating is WRONG. Once a ring is involved, then commitment and honesty must be the name of the game.
2007-03-02 17:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say that i would rather be the one cheated on, than be the one who wrecked an others marriage, who caused emotional pain to someone else. neither place would be a good place to be. but personally i would never want to be the one who hurt someone, and stole their spouse.mostly because of karma and the pay back your going to get later on. i was cheated on, the pain was unbearable, but somehow we do get over it, we are given new lives, and we do get blessed, but i don't think the cheater does. think they have something else to look forward to.
2007-03-03 06:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is good on either count. The one who is cheated with gets put in the role of "homewrecker" and the one that is cheated on gets put in the role of "fool". I think it is painful to both parties in many instances. I have friends who have been on both sides and for the most part not one of them is happy with the results.
2007-03-03 01:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of available singles out there. Why bother with all the misery and drama of cheating? Sounds very limiting and crude.
2007-03-03 01:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong answer. Any kind of cheating is wrong. It causes unnecessary emotional pain. I couldn't handle the emotional pain anymore, So I hit him just so he would beat me up. I can handle physical pain. it worked!
Ihave no where 2 go
2007-03-03 01:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Remedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you but ..... if you're the one they cheat with ...... you WILL be the one they cheat on !!!
What goes around comes around .... and if they can justify cheating once ..... they will find a way to justify it again.
And by the way .... if you are the one they cheat with ... you are just as guilty as they are ...... if you knew that is.
2007-03-03 01:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people should say they want out first and then find someone new. Chesting is for losers and people who have low self esteems. if your not getting what you need, break up and move on!!! You have family and friends to get you through the hard times
2007-03-03 01:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been the other guy and the guy who got cheated on. They bouh suck now that I look at it.
2007-03-03 06:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always better to be the phucker than the the phuckee.
2007-03-03 01:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by huckleberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no good either way. But remember this what goes around, come around.
2007-03-03 02:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋