i have this close friend that i talk to a lot and i can act really normal around her. however the next day she will tell all my friends how i acted and how stupid i wuz. she would repeat this over and over again to every friend she sees. i really like her, but she duznt stop when i walk away or tell her to stop. im really tired of her, but i still want to be close to her...wat should i do?
2007-03-02 17:08:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well maybe your not able to act as normal as you think you can around her because she exploits you around others. "friends" dont do that to one another. even when you ask her she doesnt respect your wishes. so how much of a friend is she really? i think you are quite comfortable around her and thats nice and all but real friends respect you no matter whos around. you better think again about wanting to be so close to her. she may not be the one you want to be so normal around. remember to choose your friends wisely. they are hard to find.
2007-03-02 17:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to let a friend go, (and trust me i know) but if you have already asked her to stop, and she hasn't, it seems like she just extremely desperate for attention from your other "friends". I think you will either have to have a big intervention with her, and explain all of your feelings forcefully but NOT hurtfully( that is very important) or just find someone else. Alot of the times you can find someone even better, but you also have to be careful with who you choose as your next friend because you dont want to get stuck with some real creeps ya know?
2007-03-02 18:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by dazed and confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No true friend would disrespect you like that. If she were a true friend she would not blab it over and over to others. If she were a true friend she would know that what she was doing really hurts your feelings and when you ask her to stop she would. It seems like she really enjoys hurting you. Sounds like you need to work on your self esteem and make some new friends who will respect you for who you are.
2007-03-02 17:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by LadyGrace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask your self, "why do i want to be close to her?" it sounds to me like she's been treating you like crap. i know your close to her but maybe you should try to find some new friends. its hard to trust people... try writing in a journal to express your feelings. friends might not always be there. you need to look at the things that make you happy. that are you.
2007-03-02 17:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by 4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason why she is doing this? did you ask? simply tell her that you are aware, and that you take offense to it, but your saying it with all your love and affection.
2007-03-02 17:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by anttilleanman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maby u should tell her how u feel and maby she will under stand and if she dosent and she keeps on doin it then she is not a real friend
2007-03-02 17:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by XOXOXuXnoXuXloveXmeXOXOX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋