His cell wall paper: beer. His email adress: beer. All he talks about: beer. He's only 20. Why is he so exited about beer and how do i get him to get over it?!
2007-03-02 16:49:22 · 10 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's a young man and most men that age are obsessed with beer. it doesn't mean he'll be an alcoholic. men have their 'party years' once he matures and grows up he'll get over it on his own.
2007-03-02 16:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is into beer at that age. Wait until he is 21 and things get more expensive because it is all about the bar. He will be into for a while but the phase will pass. It did for me anyway.
2007-03-02 16:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by DB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's something that all young people at that age go through i did when i hit 20 i still go to the bar once in a while for a drink or two but not like i used to just give him time he'll come around and see the light...
2007-03-02 17:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by geostrom b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can help him by helping yourself understand you. They have meetings for those who love alcoholics. If you really think that your brother is an alcoholic, those who love him need treatment as well as he does and his treatment success depends on himself and the loved ones seeking professional help.
Call one of the 12 step programs and they can direct you from there.
Try the site below-perhaps you can get some information from there.
2007-03-02 16:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Arene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just a follower. Perhaps he'll grow up ... but many men don't. Most don't end up alcoholic, but they still manage to kill plenty of brain cells along the way.
2007-03-02 16:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by Terence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you can't control someones life. If you are very concerned in your brother's habit, he could never be sober. Try talking with your mom and dad and take him to therapy. If it gets out of control, he might need to go to a class.
2007-03-02 16:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes gonna have to have a life changing moment to change. if he enjoys it then he's not gonna stop. his friends are probably the same...thats what they have in common. if he stops, he'll lose his friends.
or
he's drinking to mask hurt...cant blame him if that's the case.
2007-03-02 16:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by tryinthis2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LETS pray he wont be an alcoholic. I am praying 4 him.
2007-03-02 16:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may indeed already be an alcoholic...
2007-03-02 17:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sux for u
2007-03-02 17:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bambi; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋