My b/f has difficulty in understandings some stuffs. Especially his family, if i say something that is true, he won't admit it instead he would blame me; it is me who trying to fight with his family members or something....what can i do to make him understand in a good way and not to think in a bad way! To be honest, i love his family a lot, they are very nice people but it's him who misunderstood me....this is leading us no where, everytime when i say something or try to explain something he doesn't understand or thinking from my point of view instead taking me wrong and hurting me...one of his family members has this bad habbit interfering in our relationship, that is to control and like to know what we doing or talking everyday and many more stuffs and i feel that is very inappropriate to interfere in our relationship! But it hurts me when my b/f supports them always and fail to understand what i say about them! What can i do with a guy who says, you like to fight with my family!
2007-03-02 16:40:47 · 3 answers · asked by Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have you tried seeing things from his perspective?Is his family wrong on the advice they give him?If he is abusive towards you when he is really in the wrong, chances are he wont change.You said he wont try to see things from your point of view which shows he does not respect you or your views.So you have a decision to make.Do you want to put up with this the rest of your life?Or are you willing to hurt emotionally for a time, heal and then find a guy you are more compatible with?
2007-03-02 16:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like any 3rd wheel - if they're allowed at any time to interfere then they will continue until you and b/f are on the same page. no diff than a child who is allowed to interfere in parents relationship. he enables the 3rd person. if he continues it will cause serious issues in your relationship. you may have to use drastic means to get him to see how it effects you. he isnt seeing it because he doesnt have to.
2007-03-03 00:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by tryinthis2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your boyfriend needs to see a shrink and i mean fast otherwise this issue will get worse before it gets better so get him to a shrink and fast...
2007-03-03 00:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by geostrom b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋