Sagittarius people... what are the biggest problems you have had in relationships?

Question

Sag people are very free and this can make people in there life feel insecure and unappreciated. Do sag people have a hard time in romantic relationships? What problems do people give you?

Answer 1

Sagittarius is the clown and truth-speaker of the Zodiac. She feels imbued with the wisdom and knowledge of the ages, yet constantly searches for more. Her bow, ever aimed toward some lofty goal, is drawn precisely and with good intentions.

The Sagittarius bounds through life with the confidence and optimism of one who is blessed. There is no possibility of failure, because Sagittarius knows there is a good and just reason for everything that happens in life. The Sagittarius may seem naive - unable to perceive wrongdoing in herself or others. She possesses an innocence of spirit that allows her to see through the evils and into the goodness in the hearts of everyone. She is friend to all, lover of animals and children. To the Sag, all creatures possess the utmost goodness and beauty, and thus are worthy of her earnest appreciation.

The Sagittarius will travel far and wide in search of more knowledge about her world. She loves to learn, teach, expand and find truth - thus her interest in philosophy, religion and other cultures. She moves quickly and independently as she is so sure of her own choices, which are always pure, honest and well-meaning.

Sagittarius thrives on action, motion, knowledge, progress and spirituality. She is known to be athletic, and sometimes clumsy - occasionally tripping over her feet, or tongue. Always looking ahead, she can tap into the future. She seems to know instinctively what's coming up next....

Personal Traits

Sagittarians are positive people.They have a bright outlook on life, are enterprising, full of energy and vitality. Versatile, adventurous and eager to expand their range beyond the comfortable and familiar. They enjoy travel and exploring, and their minds are continually searching for new experiences. They are ambitious, optimistic folk, and nothing seems to get them down.
They are idealists, and this seems to keep them going even when thereare disappointments which smash their plans. They have a tendency to get over zealous when they are interested in something. They are believers, and what they believe in, they are willing to fight for. They are both loyal and independent at the same time. They manage to balance both traits.

Sagittarians are usually modest and often spiritual, with strong values. They like rituals. They are profound thinkers, and are gifted with foresight and good judgment. They are avid learners, love to initiate new projects and make great researchers.

They study quickly with keen minds. They have an expectant attitude and a penchant for new experiences, which may account for the fact that Sagittarians are noted for their longevity. They are often intuitive and original thinkers. Better at adapting than inventing, they work well in collaboration with others. A strong-will and good organization ability combined with their other talents usually bring any project they undertake to a successful conclusion.

Positive Traits

They are generous by nature, but are quite resourceful in caring for and balancing their resources. Sagittarians are ardent, sincere and straightforward in relationships. They are generally conventional and in control of their sexual natures.In friendship they are reliable, and can be counted on.

Because of their independent nature, maintaining a close personal relationship is difficult. They prefer a solid home base, but as a place to return to when they have completed a particular travel venture. They have a compelling need to feel free, and sometimes make this choice at the expense of even a family.

Main positive traits: Honest, open-minded, straight forward, ethical, charitable, generous, good sense of humour.

Negative Traits

Sagittarians have a quick temper and a biting tongue, often speaking before giving forethought to the full effect of their words. Their rage may pass quickly, but the stinging of their comments often remains. They are quick to jump on inadequacies of others while expecting full recognition of their own efforts. they can be exacting, and inconsiderate in their work life, while boastful and extravagant in their private lives.

There is also a side of the Sagittarian that is quite superstitious.Sagittarians can also be very restless people wanting to know everything that is going on around them and wanting to go everywhere. They become bored when they are surrounded by people or situations they are not interested in. They have a tendency to be unconcerned or seem unaware of the thoughts and feelings of others.

Main negative traits: exaggerating, blunt, impatient, pushy, tactless, talks too much

Answer 2

Sagittarius Problems

Answer 3

Well I have always been unlucky in love. My first boyfriend left me to be with his old girlfriend. My second boyfriend had an affair with my old friend. But now I have been in a relationship for 7years. I think it's true, that I was insecure, I'm still not sure why, but I worked on my problems and started putting other people's needs before my own. I don't know why they cheated on me, because the sex was good, we talked alot, had alot of fun and I am attractive. On another note Sag people are very generous. I give more than I recieve, and in the end I suffer for being so nice, as people use me and than spit me out.

Answer 4

Absolutely we have problems in relationships. My experiences have been it's difficult for people to understand that although I am blunt, it's never done with the intent of hurting the other person. I have to be around strong people--emotionally, otherwise it's too much work in understanding each other. Also, I hold honesty in high regard and even little white lies are offensive because I'm always true to myself, despite the consequences. You'll never be able to say I was ever a hypocrite or false, etc. Of course, this creates lots of problems because not everyone will appreciate this point of view. What problems do people give me? I don't tolerate much, so this is a difficult question. I'd have to say it ties into my previous answers above--if they lie to me, it's an issue/problem for me. I can't go on with the relationship. I'll try, but ultimately it's a waste of my time because I can't really trust that person. People also are bothered my indecisiveness about going forward with a relationship or ending it--this can be difficult for me, but I've come to realize when I'm on the fence, this person is not for me. Letting go permanently is always a challenge for me, as well.

Answer 5

I'm a sag and I love dating! The problem is I don't like to be held down, I don't like to be told what to do and I tend to be the dominant one. Which is why I go from boyfriend to boyfriend pretty quickly.

I don't think we have a harder time in relationships, I just think we have a difficult time finding someone. I think once you find another free spirit like aries or leo that you can have an great relationship! Like my boyfriend right now is awesome, we have soo much fun!

Because I am a female Sagittarius I feel like some men feel threatened by me, because I speak my mind and love to be on top!!!

We need to find someone secure with themselves, passionate and free spirited!

Answer 6

Sags LOVE their freedom so much that it would take a very special person to understand, accept and tolerate their restless, adventurous, friendly and devil-may-care attitude. It's not that we can't be devoted, loving, loyal, caring and kind. Once we find THE ONE that deserves all that, we can be overly giving with all our heart and soul. This doesn't mean that we'll give up our need for freedom and independence. Not many can handle all that. We require someone who is secure with themselves, our love for them and one who is strong enough to stand alone sometimes. We want trust and a good friend in a lover. We may seem insensitive sometimes, but we're not.........we tell it like it is and can be brutally honest. We always try to put on a happy face, but we truly hide our deepest pain and personal problems inside, away from the rest of the world. We deal with our own sorrows in private. This sometimes get misunderstood as us being shallow and superficial. Our friends rely on us for fun and laughs.......and often we don't want to disappoint. Therefore, by hiding our own demons, we come off as being too carefree. I can't speak for all Sags, but I know many and I am one. Sometimes, even we don't want to deal with our problems.

Answer 7

Before I was married, I always found that guys treated me more like a sister than a love interest. I've grown to appreicate that now, but when I was younger, it was a little disappointing, for this Sagittarius girl.

Answer 8

my biggest problems is attracted to a gemini male.. a LOT of mental confusion.. and heart torture of coz.. he seems so superficial with his feelings.. withdraw himself from me.. i feel like why on earth.. im destined to met this guy.. i feel like im worthless.. unappreciated.. yeah.. this is the first time im attracted with people who gives me uncertainty.. well.. with my birth chart full of earth zodiacs.. of coz i want a stable relationship!

- that's for me is the most and biggest problems that i've face in a relationship..

but i want to tell u something.. sag people is a freedom lover and my tips to get with them is treat them as a friend.. they don't want a partner but a friend that understands them and support them for whatever things they put their mind on.. and of coz we will make u feel appreciated.. trust me.. im a sagittarius myself and i hate the fact that i've a romantic partner.. it's just that i don't want to be pin down.. to be treated as a special friend is like a bonus to me bcoz we can be together in every situation.. it's not like with a partner, u can't have a special time together.. it's just that u can't share all ur thoughts and feelings with them bcoz they might gives us the wrong impression.. it's OK if the people u're involved in is matured but what if they are the people who can't accept the fact that the one they loved is not 'really' the one they look for?

anyway.. im just giving my opinion.. so don't get mad when my opinion is less like someone who's sag him/herself.. it really depends a LOT on their birth chart..

best of luck! = ) hope this helps..

Answer 9

" I will do it my way"

Frank Sinatra........also a Sag :-)

I like Artutina's answer !

Answer 10

i really dont kno that my mans always shy to come to me