why are people so evil to me, can you tell me why please? i just want to know why?

Question

im just minding my own buissness and then all of a sudden a girl comes up to me and pushes me. as i get up my lunch flys in the air and my lunch all over her. so she tells me to meet her by the trashcans after school. so i did and she didnt show up. and yet she calls me a chicken for not showing up.(i could of said so may things but i just let it go one by me and not let it bother me)

Answer 1

People were evil to me to in high school! I was the troll that stunk! You know I can recall now that I think about it I happened to be the quiet one in class no matter what they said to me I was too shy to talk back. They thought it made them look cool to make fun of someone. It made them feel more popular!

Answer 2

Glad she didn't show up.

There are many reasons some people bully others. Most of the time it has nothing to do with you personally. It usually is to do with the bully him/herself.

Here is a list of things that might cause someone to turn into a bully:
- The bully might be picked on by someone else so it makes them feel stronger
- The bully might not have friends and be jealous
- They may be abused by their parents
- They might be having trouble with their school work and are stressed out
- The bully may not know how to feel happy, so she's expressing the anger inside of her

Here are some things that you may have that the bully wishes (s)he did:
- great sense of humor
- an interesting life
- hobbies and sport interests
- people that like you
- parents that love you

It's hard dealing with bullies. If you can't solve the problem yourself, get support from someone who knows how to help. There's all kinds of info on the web. Just Google "bully help" or "bully support". You can find hotlines and talk to people about it on the phone, or chat online about it.

Glad you wrote about it. I have a feeling you can take care of yourself quite well.

Answer 3

People are much more rude these days. However, it sounds like you are not being respected. Don't get it twisted. If someone just comes up to you and and pushes you, it sounds to me like you are being pegged a sucker. Believe it or not, it takes a fool to be this secure to approach a complete stranger and do what this girl did to you. Forget the meeting by the trashcans. You should have knocked her out, right then and there. I guarantee you, she would have become psychic and knew enough to leave you alone in the future.

Answer 4

Sounds like she is a bully and like most bullies they are only strong when there are other people around. This probably doesn't have anything to do with you she is so insecure that she can't function. Don't let her bother you, you are a bigger person with much more character. But don't let her push you either let her know that you will not tolerate such adolescent behavior. Then ask her if she comprehends what you just told her. Be ready to defend yourself though because you are going to make her look like the biggest loser she is when you tell her she is acting like a child

Answer 5

I have no idea why some people are so evil. I'm sorry that happened to you. I know it seems like dealing with people like this at school will never end, but before you know it you will be out in the real world. The wonderful thing about this is that if you run into someone like that girl, you can usually avoid them for the most part. There's always one in every crowd, but they tend to get more subtle (no pushing) as they get older.

Just sending some hugs your way.

Answer 6

First of all your life is about making u happy give all there problems to god hes the only one who can handle as it needs to be handled. It takes a women to walk away. poeple who pick on others is because they have the problem not u. they say u spot it u got it. Dont let someone elses words are actions control your thoughts are your life noone is worth it god is the first and last to judge you and uno what the way your handling things god will see you have faith in your self ang god. You never know what others are going through in there life there un happy and they want u to be also. Your not the only one in this world to be picked on just never forget it can only be a big deal in your life if you let it. remember life is to short. This is your life not theres and dont let them still what they wish they had are could be. YOU

Answer 7

Because people like her have problems at home, and want to be hard at school to make everyone think they are tough, but they are the ones later on in life to end up sorry! The reason why girls like this act this way because it's called jealousy! Don't lower yourself to s***** girls like that, they just bring you down, you have nothing to prove to girls that want to be so called hard loose-rs. NO NEED TO TRY TO HARD TO BE ONE, you keep your head up, it's her fault food ended up all over her...If she continues to harass you, tell her to leave you alone and to get a life...

Answer 8

Hey! People are certaiinly not evil to you! The stupid git is just simply jealous! She wants to make you bieng really pissed so she can hav sum fun pissing you off. You see she wants to make you fell as if you're degraded! DONOT LET HER MAKE YOU FEEL THAT WAY! Answer back to her in the same mean way and call her a stupid donkey.
P.S I hope this works.

Answer 9

It's probably your personality ... or your clothes ... or your hair ... but it's more likely your English. Don't worry about it. Hang out at the trashcans and you'll soon attract 'friends'.

Good luck with that.

Answer 10

Sorry...can't tell ya. Not in enough info. What did you do before this incedent? People tend to tell the current events but not the events that led upto it. My son does it all the time. Tell us more.

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