How can I grow up?

Question

I am so childish.

Answer 1

me too. lemme know when you find the answer

Answer 2

You will eventually grow up by growing older. Wisdom comes with age. You are childish because you probably are still a child. Enjoy your childhood. Adulthood is a long, long time with lots of decisions and responsibilities. And each cause has its effect.

Answer 3

Embrace it! As long as you are responsible, why change. If you are and adult and can hold a job, pay your bills, take care of yourself and family...then there is nothing wrong with acting childish. BUT...there is a time and a place. You just have to act right sometimes... lol And if you are a kid, don't worry about it! Be a kid!

Answer 4

Grown up only leads to growing old.
And growing old only leads to dying
and dying to me don't sound like all that much fun.
So I said...

Eh, Where will you be in 50 years and what are you doing to get there?
Keep making lists of where you will be in a week, a month, a year. Until that list grows to you are 65 years old.
Then, just follow and update the list as you go...

Answer 5

Maybe you are not child-ISH, but child-LIKE, and this is a good thing.I forced myself to grow up, because I felt that being child like was immature. What I didn't realize was that there is a difference between being child like, and child-ISH, the latter one being more the definition of immature. There is nothing wrong with being child like. To be like a child means to look for the joy in every experience. Live for the moment. Do things that your heart desires to do, without caring what others think about you. I think kids know more about their true self than most adults do. I look at my daughter, and she knows exactly what she needs to be happy. And it's always something simple. Like a hug, or a good laugh, or a good story.Think how easy it is to please a child. They have no worries, they live for the moment and enjoy the ride. We as adults are still capable of dealing with adult responsibilities, and still be child like as well. When I grew up and had kids, the child in me started to come out again, because I had suppressed it for so long. And I can tell you that I have no greater feeling of joy than when I play with my kids. We make up stories, we build tents, we play zoo, and army men, we jump on the bed, I even play with them on the McDonalds' playground. Being child like keeps you young, and helps you remember what is important in life- joy and love. That's all a kid needs to survive. Be child like for as long as you can. You will feel no greater sense of freedom. If you do beleive yourself to be Chid-ISH instead, don't worry, sometimes it takes some people a little longer to get past this stage than others. We've all been there, and we've all come out of it. It takes time. Let the natural processes of growing up and maturing take their course.Don't force them. Enjoy life as much as you can where you are now.You'll never experience these same moments again.

Answer 6

Make a pattern, analyze your every action...but if you're still young enjoy it at present...anyway it's just once in a lifetime....but if you are old and responsible enough...good for you.. that means you've grown and your childishness could still be under control...just be responsible in all your actions...good luck...

Answer 7

same as the top guy above me i mean come on I'm 14 and I'm helping a guy run for the possession of the new head of LAUSD (Los Angeles Unified School District)

Answer 8

Stops whanking off ! Gets yosef a real man !

Answer 9

Witness horrible things. I know this sounds like bad advice, but it will show you the ugly side of things and frankly, wake you up.

Answer 10

Join the army, that'll grow you up pretty damn fast

Answer 11

That's okay if you're under 21 and, or a male.