ok there is this girl and i thought i we were close friend then one day i showed her the note that her boyfriend wrote about anthor girl he liked.so i told her to promise not tell him that i let her read the note.she said that she wouldn't tell.then when i went to iss she told him. then he told me that she told him about the note.one of my close friend will get mad at me becuz that is her cousins.should i be mad at the girl that promised not to tell.
2007-03-02 16:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that girl back stabbed you and put u into an awful position when you tried to help her out!!! be pissed!
2007-03-02 16:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you be? really no answer on that.. but being blunt, you really have no right to be mad at her, when you should not have shown her in the first place, she was probably very hurt and couldn't help but tell, she wanted answers. if you want to be mad at someone, be mad at the boy for putting you in the middle of it, if he did, or take it as a lesson learned by silently stepping out of the middle of things.. sometimes mistakes are learned the hard way unfortunately... Goodluck with your friend hun
2007-03-02 16:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by emeralz_veneficus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, No.
You know, there are times in our lives that we need to learn to keep things secret that someone trusted in us. In this case, that young guy trusted you not to share that. You showed it to his girlfriend, and now want to know if you should be mad at her? NOOOO, be mad at yourself. You are the one that started the trouble, she didn't. Would you have kept your mouth shut if the roles had been reversed? NO...it would have made you as mad as it did her. Do you blame her, NO..I don't.
BTW, the mention of ISS, is a clue to how you act at school...why are ya in there, huh? Behavior?
You know...sometimes we do things on purpose also...like this. Maybe you need to look deep inside and ask yourself why you shared this with her. Jealousy? Interest in her boyfriend? Just to break her heart and hurt her in the process? Or..just plain damn mean? And you wonder if you should be mad at her?
Go apologize to that girl and that guy for doing it, your the one at fault here...not her! Your the one that started it!
2007-03-02 16:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should be mad at yourself for being stupid enough to think that showing the girl the note about her boyfriend liking another girl wouldn't somehow get back to him.
2007-03-02 16:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A year from now it won't matter.
Don't worry about it.
It's just teenage drama.
2007-03-02 16:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be mad at her and yourself.
That stuff always comes back at you.
2007-03-02 16:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK YEAH. I WOULD
2007-03-02 16:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by A7X 16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋