im a "good girl" and no one loves me anymore. i hate it. what can i do to change? if u don't answer, youre pretty much saying you dont care if a girl cries.
2007-03-02 16:17:00 · 14 answers · asked by hmw95 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I’m not sure what happened to make you believe no one loves you, but this seems unlikely to me. I know there are times when it seems everything is going against me and nobody cares but then I think of all the ppl I know and realize that there are many ppl that do care and will come to my aid when things are bad. They all have obligations and commitments but eventually someone gives me the help I need to get by. Look around. Talk to your family and friends. You will be surprised just how many ppl love you and are counting on you for support just as you are counting on support from them. Nobody in their right mind wants to see a cute German cry. Pls smile.
2007-03-05 02:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sam E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I don't know whats going on with your situation cuz you didnt put alot of details but i can tell you one thing there are people out there that do love you. Firstly and most importantly God loves you, your family, close friends....now think abou this your saying no one loves you anymore what happened that makes you think that? And why would you want to change yourself if you know your a good girl? If you yourself say your a good person than there is absolutely nothing to worry about, you shouldnt care about what people think, i dont know what happened but no matter what has happened there are other people that have it way worse than you do. Try looking on the bright side of things and praying or try talking to a counselor or an adult in your family or a close friend and tell them how you feel. Once you talk to someone and get those feelings of your chest you will feel much better.
2007-03-03 00:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Lady B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happens with me,may be it's our fate which itself is the result of many complex situations and probabilities around us.As far as we humans are concerned we don't have any control over the probilistic phenomenon,but God has.
Now why God is doing this to you?
May be because he has already planned how your life will grow,this doesn't mean your life will remain same,it's impossible.
The important thing is you should remain a "good girl" because God always takes away the sorrow of those people who are good to others(this is for sure),although it may happen bit late but it shall happen,so wait for good time to come,God is watching you every moment and for the mean time become happy that you are good girl and soon your life is also going to be good.
2007-03-03 00:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Digit Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think that. or what di you do? anyway why does it matter what everyone thinks you need to think are you going to let everyony run your life for you as long as you did or say what you believe is right than later in life you will get more respect from the people you think hate you. you half to stand up for you and your beliefs because no one else will. but if you think yo were in the wrong then say your are sorrie and if they dont except than ats there loss not yours at least you know you tried ad you didnt need them anyways.
2007-03-03 01:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by april_williams10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step out of your comfort zone and do something fun, like bring silly string to a party and start squirting peooople with it, throw popcorn at the loud people in the movie theatre. Be spontaneous, if theres something on your mind, problems, great news, crappy day, shout it out. Don't hide behind the good girl act.
2007-03-03 00:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by ~Soul Socks~ aka <Spiderwebs& 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how bad it is you always have to believe in yourself. pain brings growth and strength. Your value does not change when others don't love you, your self worth diminishes when you don't love yourself. go ahead and cry but when you are done wash your face stand up straight and proud. have faith in myself. Stand on your own two feet don't wait for others to hold you in place. Both loser and winner get knocked down the difference is winners get up no matter how painful it is. If no one else cares you have to care for yourself - be a one woman army and care for yourself.
2007-03-03 00:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by zqx357 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are thinking that everyone hates you, you have to change your thinking. If you want positive things in your life think only good and positive thoughts, negative thoughts brings negative things into your life. First thing I'd do if I were you would be to change my screen name. God bless. RickN
2007-03-03 00:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by RickN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may feel no one loves you - but there is always tomorrow. You'll probably meet the love of your life when least expecting it
2007-03-03 00:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by KATHY A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey now, stop that. We all love you! But the one that is for you is just not ready to meet you. He's being readied. Just hang in there. You'll know when you meet him. :)
2007-03-03 00:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you should change your selection method, select different type of people and you will find what you are looking for...
Besti wishes....
2007-03-03 00:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by etherberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋