Why would guy get a such kick out of dating girls only to get as much personal info out of her as possible, get her to fall into love with him, be seen with her, and other things only to cut off contact with her out of blue? He doesn't do anything sexually with them most of the time so it's not for sex.
Especially if this guy hardly got any date in high school and use to be incredible nice and sweet?
2007-03-02 16:05:33 · 19 answers · asked by syv999 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Oh and keep in mind, it's common believed that this guy is a sadistic and enjoy fight and harm other guys physically. However it's clearly when it come to other girls, he's machoist but domination and like to be bite or scratches until he bleed.
2007-03-02 16:07:30 · update #1
He doesn't hurt girls physically. He hurt them emotionally (lead on then cut everything off) He like to be hurt by the girl though.
It's guy that he like to hurt and he only hurt them in a fight.
2007-03-03 02:18:49 · update #2
maybe he had a bad experienced, and now is dealing with his problems by hurting others... he was probably manlipulated and now is trying to get revenge....other may see it just a game..they like to feel the power/control...but us, girls cannot let them use us; if we respect ourselves, then they cannot take advantage...
2007-03-02 16:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by OnAJourney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a power game, he has been hurt or has had bad feelings toward women for a while.The time between high school and working in the real world could have given him the freedom to and courage to play with a woman's feelings.
2007-03-03 00:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by stbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me he is an information gatherer commonly known as a black mailer. He gets the information and only brings it up when he needs to get out of something or needs something. Don't tell him nothing. He may also tell other guys and that how bad reps start. Keep away from him. Someone must had done something like this to him....
2007-03-03 00:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Transferring his dislike for his mother onto more vulnerable females. It is a power struggle to prove that he doesn't need girls, but can dominate them..This guy could be dangerous down the road and is probably a closet Queen. Avoid him at all costs.
Best wishes
2007-03-03 00:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by tylernmi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has an ego problem.. He is doing it to fill himself up... He is really lacking... He is terribly immature and somewhere along the line he was stunted emotionally.. It may not be his fault but he is going about it the wrong way.. He will never have healing.. My advise to you is stay far far away from him so he does not mess up your mind.. He has issues..He also loves that everyone is talking about him and he is always on the front burner... This excites him... He just hasn't grown up yet and it may never happen
2007-03-03 00:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is confused at what he wants he doesn't hate women he just has a lot going on inside he doesn't have skills to handle in a mature way...let me guess he never really opened up in return you didn't know his secrets like he knew yours huh? well the other option is he is sexually frustrated and will soon realize he is gay and That fighting with other guys temporarily satisfies his need to touch them that he is not yet fully aware of
2007-03-03 00:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a guy and the best way to explain it is lots of times guys will flirt just fir the sake of it and without wanting a commitment. He obviously just wants to know if he could get a girl, and once he knows, his mission is accomplished.
Good luck.
2007-03-03 00:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadism = Hurting others
Machoism = wanting to be hurt.
some answerer are confused, the subject wants to be "hurt by girls" not "go and hurt girls" or is the asker confused about definition of sadism vs. machoism.
2007-03-03 04:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by sophomore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try consulting a Psychologist
2007-03-03 00:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by DreamerButterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know a guy like that and he just likes it when the girl is making it challenging the second he has it he gets rid of it for no good reason
2007-03-03 00:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by yea boy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋