I had a close 'girlfriend' which currently we are living together. Anyway, I did a 'bad' thing to her. I have sex with one of my colleague in the office toilet one day. But she was the one who asked me for it. And she's married with 2 kids though, but had a nice figure. Anyway, she just told me that we 'do' it just for fun, and its a discreet relationship. She knew I have a gf too, and she too married. So she don't want others to know about it, just the two of us to know. However, whenever I have sex with my gf, I will think of her. And I admit I do enjoy having sex with my colleague too. Am I falling in love with my colleague? Or just plain having fun? Shall I told my gf about it?
2007-03-02 15:51:54 · 4 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you can't separate the two,have fun with one but love the other then you better quit the office fling.And don't ever mention it to your gf. Some people don't know when they have a good thing.
2007-03-02 16:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Georgewasmyfavorite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a first class cad! And a cheat to boot. Who cares if this other "broad" has a good figure or not! She's committing adultery. An office relationship is NEVER a good idea.
You aren't falling in love. I doubt seriously if you even know what it is. Having fun? You just want to use the opposite sex for your own gratification.
Tell your girlfriend and see how fast she walks out (if she's smart). She may also kick you in a certain part of your anatomy. It would serve you right.
Jerk!
2007-03-03 00:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Barry 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never confess. Why hurt your girlfriend with the thoughts of you cheating when you don't have to. Love and sex are two different things. Maybe your thinking about your co-worker because the feeling is so much different because it is a new experience. Either way you must choose one.
2007-03-02 23:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don' t think you need advise. I think that you think what your doing is cool and need a way to tell people have good you are. You know what it is, now stop bragging.
2007-03-03 00:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kain j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋