im in love with a wonderful man twice my age. im staying with him and no one can change my mind. would you do the same thing in my situation?
2007-03-02 15:30:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I guess it would depend on how old you are. A lot of older men prefer younger women due to looks, body, and energy levels. Younger women might prefer having a older mature man since he has his act together and doesn't need to play mind games. Have you asked him why he prefers a younger woman? This might make you feel more comfortable with him. I don't think it should matter what others think since you are the one in the relationship. I have a good friend of mine that has always dated older men. She is younger than me by about 10 years, and her husband is older than me by about 10 years. They are perfectly happy together. Do what you think works for you and your man. It's your happiness and all relationships, regardless of age difference, have issues. Wish you well.
2007-03-02 15:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by San Jose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, knowing that a man twice my age is my mothers age, never in a million years, but if he makes you happy and has you best interest at hand then go on with your bad self. Good luck.
2007-03-02 15:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by dancingqueen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was dating someone twice my age, he would be 88. Think about that. Do you want to be taking care of some old man, when you are only in your forties?
2007-03-02 15:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by KayGeeTX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is 20 yrs older then me...not quite twice my age but i can't complain...we have lots in common,have been married almost 11 years and have an almost 5 y/o daughter,and he's getting ready to retire this summer from his job he has had for 37 years...and for the folks who say you will bew taking care of an old man because he is older,just because he is older doesnt guarentee something will happen to him
2007-03-02 15:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by charmel5496 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were in love with him you wouldn't have posted this question. This means one of two things: A) you don't love him and are looking for justification for breaking up with him or B) you are looking to rebel and are looking for people like me to tell you to break up with him so that you can stay with him in an effort to be defiant.
Either way, the bottom line is that YOU need to make the decision.
2007-03-02 15:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Crockeruha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on how old you are, but if you feel right about it, that do what your heart wants you to do. Think about the future too... what happens when he's 50 and youre 30? Just be careful.
2007-03-02 15:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by Becky S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was real love, yes. It can happen. My crush is twice my age and then some!
2007-03-02 15:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Friend of mine married a man 21 yrs older...and she's caring for a bald old man with severe arthritis.
2007-03-02 15:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by B"Quotes 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I date a woman 25 years older than me...and she rocks the house.
2007-03-02 15:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by Robert B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are and how old he is. If you are over 30, no biggie. If you are under 30, you might think twice.
2007-03-02 15:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by Alexandriagal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋