my best friend is 13 and im 14 she is prgent. and im not. She went to a party got hi and had sex. We both had sex her boyfriend didnt have a comdom on and mines did. 8 months later she is prgent. and the dad said " No, Im not being a dad". What should I do????
2007-03-02 15:19:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
She hasnt told her parent and my boyfriend drive us to the store and all. I know you'll be mad be he is 16 about to me 17.
2007-03-02 15:33:08 · update #1
Well I have two bank accouts. and one of them was saved up by us. We have 817.97 dollars in the bank so the money dosent matter to us.
2007-03-02 15:36:26 · update #2
Im sorry. But when i was 10 my boyfriend said ' Doing sex means more money I got 250.00 for sucking and &*^%ing but when I got to 12 I stop and said that is all selling my body to anyone. So im SORRY!!!
2007-03-02 15:41:59 · update #3
Thank God everyday that you are not pregnant, cause your friend is going to have a tuff life, no matter what Her out come is. Just stick by her side and be a good friend, hopefully she has parents that will help her out in where ever this leads her. I got pregnant when I was 16, now I am 28 and it was tough but I raised my child with help from my parents, the father was not around and it was hard. You are saying she is 3 years younger then that......so good luck, just be a friend!
2007-03-02 15:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to tell her parents. I know, this is the very last thing she wants to do. If she is pregnant from sex eight months ago, shes having the baby VERY SOON. Has she had sex since then? If she has, it might be from then.
Anyways, she needs to tell her parents. I'm guessing you don't have a lot of money, and you don't have your license to drive to a doctor, so your parents have to help you guys out. Its too late to stop the pregnancy (unless you go to extreme measures, which you probably won't like), so she needs to see a doctor about having this baby. There could be complications, she and the baby could be in danger. If you want to help your friend, she needs a doctor, and her parents need to take her there and they need to help pay and support her.
You should be with your friend when she tells her parents, its going to be hard for her. They're going to find out anyways. She'll probably say no, she doesn't want to tell her parents, but YOU need to do the right thing and make her tell them. She needs help from an adult.
2007-03-02 23:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Leselina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and 14 years old? That is not even old enough to get a job! Diapers are $17 and formula is between $20 and $30. What the heck are you doing having sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are like in seventh grade! That is so gross! You should be very ashamed.
2007-03-02 23:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Pear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do other than be there for her and support her no matter what she decides to do, I got pregnant at 16 and if it wasnt for my friends and family I don't think i could have made it through it. She needs ou to be there as a friend. Make sure she sees a doctor too.
2007-03-02 23:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if has been 8 months then she is about to have the baby. And surely someone would have noticed that she is pregnant especially her parents or teachers at school. Therefore all u need to do is be her freind
2007-03-02 23:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by ce_ben1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be there for her no matter what if you are a good friend. so is she 8 months pregnant? i hope her mom knows and is helping her in whatever that is so young. just be there for her to talk to about whatever she needs you too. and dont have sex see what happens!
2007-03-02 23:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just support your friend and stick by her side this is going to be a rough journey for her adn she needs you now more than ever!! as for the dad thats soo typical, what a reall jerk. hope shes learned her lesson. best of luck to you both =)
2007-03-02 23:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by ii love him xo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all... YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE THAT!!!!!!
you are only 14? now all i gots to say is that ur screwed! sorry i feel really bad for you guyz......I hope you guyz live.....j/k.. just help her thru everything you know? be a friend...hepl her in anyway you can.
2007-03-02 23:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by &thalia.belle; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing just support her and tell her to tell her parents. You are not responsible.
2007-03-02 23:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by MamyLaly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both are very sick and a waste to this world.
2007-03-03 00:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋