My husband and i have been trying to get pregnant for some time now and its just not working out. does anyone know of some different positions we can try to elevate our chance? i am currently ovulating so HURRY!!! SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!!!
2007-03-02 15:07:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
doggy style works well or i saw this thing for pregnant women on TV where the guy lays down and bends his knees and the girl stradles him good luck
P.S. oral sex does not work for getting pregnant. my bf tried to convince me that it does when i tried to get pregnant
2007-03-02 15:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can try elevating your hips for 15-20 min after sex.
However, the best way to conceive is to have intercourse while you have fertile cervical fluid, especially the most fertile egg-white like CF. Fertile CF is absolutely necessary for sperm survival. Sperm can only live 30min-4hrs inside the woman's body w/o fertile CF. Fertile CF also tends to "hold on" to the sperm...so a special postion isn't really necessary.
If you aren't already, I highly recommend charting your fertility signs. Your chart can tell you when you are fertile, when you are not, when you are ovulating, when to expect your next period, and when to suspect pregnancy. Your chart can also tell you if there are issues delaying conception or causing difficulty w/ carrying a pregnancy and if there are serious issues which need a doc's attention.
Some good sources for charting your fertility signs: Fertilityfriend.com (free software as well as a pay-for version and on-line charting turorial); ovusoft.com (discussion boards for many fertility related issues, much info on fertility after the pill, and a very good software for purchase). The books Taking Charge of Your Fertility (associated w/ the the ovusoft website and software), The Art of Natural Family Planning, and Garden of Fertility
2007-03-02 15:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kari 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I HAVE NOT SEEN A SERIOUS ANSWER YET ON HERE. HAVE YOU AND THE HUBBY HAD KIDS BEFORE? IF NOT YALL MIGHT WANT TO GO TO A FERTILITY DR. FIRST TO SEE IF BOTH OF YOU ARE CAPABLE OF PRODUCING KIDS. I AM NOT TRYING TO SOUND FUNNY BUT SOMETIMES THERE MAY BE A ISSUE SOMEWHERE EITHER ONE COULD HAVE. BUT DONT WORRY GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH A PRECIOUS LITTLE BUNDLE ONE DAY . PROBABLY WHEN YOU ALL ARE NOT EXPECTING IT. THAT WHAT USEALLY HAPPENS. DONT STRESS YOUR SELVES OUT ABOUT TRYING TO HAVE A BABY, STRESS DOES AFFECT THE PROCESS. JUST GIVE IT SOME TIME AND IF NOTHING HAPPENS GO SEE A DR. AND MAYBE THEY CAN HELP. JUST DONT WORRY AND HAVE FUN TRYING AT THE LEAST. GOD BLESS AND GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-02 15:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by willwork4u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you have sex before you go to bed tonight. On your back... Then after you do, raise your pelvis w/ legs in the air for about 20-30 minutes. I put them up on the wall as high as I could (we dont have a headboard). Watch TV to pass the time, if you have to. Also, DO NOT get up out of bed, all night if possible. (So go to the bathroom before intercourse) Keeps those little sperm inside so they can work their way up where they need to go. That should work as it did for me both times. Hope this helps - Good Luck.
2007-03-02 15:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by familyof4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try the regular missionary position and afterwards hold your butt in the air with you hands on your lower back sounds weird I know but worked twice for me. It gives the sperm time to travel rather than leak out! Best of wishes!
2007-03-02 15:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As far as i know position doesn't matter at all. Sperms will continue its activity of going to his egg at any position, okay? No gravity related in the positioning.
2007-03-02 18:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by loving mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my sexuality class a speaker told us that doggy style is good for trying to get pregnant since the position the girl is in places the sperm higher up or something like that...good luck
2007-03-02 15:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not quality - it's quantity. Do it like horny rats as often as possible in as many positions as you can think up while the gettin's good. If your hubby starts wearing out - get out the whips and make him do his duty! This is no time to take things lying down!!
2007-03-02 15:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
guy on top and after put a pillow under your hips for about 15 minutes
2007-03-03 14:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay on your side with the bottom leg straight and the top leg bent like in a sitting position, have him straddle the straight leg while lifting the top leg. good penetration. it also helps if you orgasm after he has dumped his load, because your uterus will convulse and suck in any sperm in the vagina
2007-03-02 21:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by blah blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋