wut should i do if my bf and my good friend are getting a little to close. they claim to act like brother and sister...? but i dont know if thats the case.
2007-03-02 15:00:43 · 16 answers · asked by m p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Step in and handle the issue!
2007-03-02 15:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by eddie4306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you tell your friend that although you trust her, there are boundaries that have to be respected if she wants to remain your friend. Also, let your boyfriend know that them being so close makes you uncomfortable. Stress to him that while you may be completely secure with yourself, you would appreciate if they could be more friendly and less flirty. If all else fails, dump the boyfriend and make sure the next guy you bring your friend around is not her type.
2007-03-02 15:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by doonie479 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's nasty !!! You know your friend so...what do you think? Is she capable of stealing your boyfriend? This kind off attitude seems kinda bizarre to me; Talk to your good friend first and ask her to tell you what she feels for your bf. If she doesn't feel anything but friendship, than everything's OK! If she indeed feels something for him, then give her 2 options: either she gives up her feelings and remains your best friend, either she continues to hit on your bf and become your enemy!!!
2007-03-03 07:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by boy_out_of_hell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to do things with them that keeps them separate. Tell your boyfriend you feel odd having him and your friend buddy up together. Tell him you are not used to this and you're just not comfortable. There should be more distance between your honey and your friends. With men and women, the sexual element is always present (unless one of them is gay). Tell your friend the same thing. Be nice about it, and if either of them love you, they will respect your feelings even if they don't understand.
2007-03-02 15:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend how your feeling. And the truth of the matter is that men and women cannot really be just friends without some sexual desire. Harry said it best in "When Harry Met Sally" :)
2007-03-02 15:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by monstergymnast23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say to BOTH your best friend and your boyfriend that ..they are NOT like sister and brother by any means and you don't like what's going on* IF they don't respect what you're saying.........Then time to move on. Leave them both * as it seems like they're getting close and pushing you away*
2007-03-02 15:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them about it. If you feel something is going on let them know and if they act funny about than maybe they are if they are than let both of them go. You don't need friends or boyfriends that are going to treat you that way
2007-03-02 15:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by motherof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm that has happened to me before and they ended up being jerks and well they claimed they hated eachother but flirted alot and well i dumped him eventually (not right away) and i stopped being friends with her. technically dont just blame it on the girl, its also the guys fault. but its both. i wouldnt trust it at all.
2007-03-02 15:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by score8500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the "good friend" out of the picture as much as possible, which can be all the time. you know where this could head.
2007-03-02 15:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by inluvwithb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your good friend about this Then talk to your boyfriend about this.
2007-03-02 15:04:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋