How good does it have to be before anything better is an idealistic fantasy borne out of too many fairy tales and hollywood movies?
2007-03-02 14:55:36 · 7 answers · asked by Foot Foot 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be real, don't settle for anything less than Love within a committed relationship....and its not always going to be like fairy tales and hollywood movies...but true love will survive the test of time.
2007-03-02 15:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think with all the movies and love stories, love... do we really know what that is? I am almost 22 years old and am divorced, been through the ringer. I really thought I loved my ex, but he didn't work, was lazy, and still is unemployed, well don't EVER date someone that is unemployed, even if you do like him, he will think he can just mooch off of you. My opionion now is don't get married til your 30+. From the age 18-29 you are changing, maturing, and making life chacging choices, do you really want a guy to hold you back? NO. Stay single, have fun, (not sleeping around or anything like that) just enjoy life, its way too short to be miserable with someone that you felt you settled for. WAit on that succesful doctor or lawyer eventually he will come to you. DONT SETTLE for 2nd best!!!
2007-03-02 23:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by alleybug_2003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were genuinely in love, you would not need to ask this question. When you find someone you truly love, even though you get mad at them sometimes, you would never even think it might be better with someone else. You would just know that you wanted to spend the rest of your life making them happy, and that having them in your life was enough to make you happy
2007-03-03 06:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know that u re settling if u re with this person but think u re worth smth better than that. so i say if u think u re worth better than the one u re with now - dump him. it is better to stay alone than just with anybody and think till the rest of your life "what if..."
2007-03-03 02:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know its good when you dont have to ask yourself this question thats unfair to you and definatly so for your partner
2007-03-02 23:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by nendlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you find the right person for you, you wont have to ask yourself that question. Everything will feel right
2007-03-03 03:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kizzy_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want it to end, you're not settling. If you do, you are.
2007-03-02 23:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jamin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋