if some thing that was done to u that was beyond feeling. that u know if u told any one they would not understand how much if hurt. what would be ur " want to do in retaliation " for the said transgression?
2007-03-02 14:50:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
this for the folks that have been around awhile. the ?'s that i ask r not because I am looking for advice. because I am not. I am only looking for the response of others. If it takes answering the ? in a manner of give-ing advice in order to answer then please give. My ? r not trival[ at least i hope they r not] people need to express their feelings more so that other people will hopefully do some thing about the sad state of affairs this world is in!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-03 07:59:54 · update #1
seek revenge only when you want to make matters worse.
2007-03-03 10:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by lightperson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say let success be your revenge, but it depends how severe the offence is. Also revenge is a dish best served cold,it is good not to react too swiftly as you may regret the actions you take in the heat of the moment.
2007-03-02 15:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The worst of all suffering is when you suffer alone, when you are unable to explain or tell how you feel, or what is happening to you. When someone has gatecrashed into your mind without you suspecting a thing feeling a caution the sense of hurt is further augmented by sense of defeat, dishonesty and treachery on the part of someone you perhaps trusted. Thoughts of vengeance come from our inability to forget or forgive, from feeling helpless.
You might like everyone to understand 'how much it hurts', but no amount of explaining will make those understand who do not, and those who understand do not need you to explain to them. The world in general will never understand exactly how you feel, reserve first understanding for yourself, you need to get over things and you need to understand first what has happened, and more importantly what is still happening. You need to know what to do
I know this when I was hurt, and I know still and I still feel that hurt as if it has never gone away and many hurtful things have sprung up out of the hurt along the way; I still struggle, but I do not give up. May be I have known now to let people know how they can help me instead of trying to make them feel as badly as I some times do.
The thoughts of vengeance are self-consuming for the one who contemplate vengeance, as the hurt would like to do the same to the one who hurt them, they would like to make everyone know exactly how they feel and this is where the evil of a hurtful act gets it life, and channels of propagation. If someone cause you harm in the past and agonising thoughts of resentment are still with you as if they are jumping across lengths of time to get to you then know that the act of harm is still alive and well making your life miserable, you need to stop it, stop feeding the monster and forget it this is the only thing that you can do when you come face to face with evil, the one you do not have time to know, or mind to think about or reason to contend with, it will try to take over you entirely. All the time you have is for the purpose of good living, loving and being loved.
They say that living well is the best revenge, this is true most of the time; the time we reserve to react is the time stolen from us, and the thoughts given to contemplate vengeance are the thoughts thrown into raging fire - the time that we could have spent living, and the thoughts we could have thought about the well-being of fellow hman beings.
2007-03-02 22:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by Shahid 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have this going on right now in my life. I would say that I would take revenge on my one ex-friend (although she doesn't know that) for stealing the one guy who I liked for his personality, not looks, away from me. She has been showing him off in front of me all month, and I cannot take it anymore. I think that that defiantly calls for revenge
2007-03-02 14:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Eyelinerislife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This wont be easy but you need to forgive because when you forgive, the transgression no longer rules your life. Forgiveness is not a feeling but a mental choice.
2007-03-02 14:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i might beat them up, depending on what they did, i once had to punch a kid in the face cuz he was making fun of me and throwin some little food stuff at me, after i punched him he did not retaliate at all so i went and sat back down, and since i have had no problems from him :)
2007-03-02 14:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
staying strong and cracking on, that always brings a bully down to see they have no effect!either that or squeeze their head like a spot till it pops lol
2007-03-02 14:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by nendlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if anyone harmed my children id want to kill them, slowly and painfully, not talking about the small stuff, thinking, rape, murder, kidnap, severe physical abuse, and to those that say forgive, well you better than i and probably dont have children yet
2007-03-02 19:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing, only what you believe it to be, just don't take it personally and walk away, i know that doing that sounds stupid, but it will pay off in the long run.
2007-03-02 14:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by crazydrummer347 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
revenge is useless - waste of energy - just learn and move on.
2007-03-02 18:02:58 · answer #10 · answered by Freethinking Liberal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋