Theres this guy @ my school and I know FOR SURE that when he was 9 (yes,9) He had sex with an 11 yr. girl. And he got her pregnant. What should I do and who do you think will take care of the baby (the guy is now 12)? I really need help with this! The parents DO NOT know!
2007-03-02 14:20:06 · 19 answers · asked by toribkeith 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
where has the baby been for the last three years?
2007-03-02 14:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by kitten 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
These children have parents. They are certainly involved in the situation. Even if they don't all know yet, they will. You say that the guy is 12 now so you are talking about what happened 3 years ago. That means a child has already been born and that child has been in the care of someone. There are laws to determine who takes care of an infant. This is not something that you have to concern yourself with.
2007-03-06 11:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... when he was 9 and now he's 12 the girl was pregnent 3 years? doesn't make sense, well if it helps tho here's some advice well talking to parents is the hardest thing to do and terrifying but one month or another her parents will realize so they should talk to there parents now running away should never be an answer but talking to a counsler at the school will be the easyest way anyways make sure at least that she is indeed pregnent don't let her run a false alarm and get herself in trouble. in the worst case scenerio the parents will have to surrender the child to the state because they can't raise it on there own ... i wish i could help even more myself but i'm broke and i've kinda been in that situation ... just tell her that the world isn't over she must be strong and if your her friend be rite by her side and give her support.. good-luck with this .
2007-03-02 22:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ernesto g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if he got her pregnant that long ago, the baby must have been taken care of for the past 3 years somehow. P.S. telling people the "DEAL WITH IT" IS NOT THE WAY TO ASK FOR HELP. there is no way that a 12 year old could give birth without the parents knowing. besides that, a 9 year old would be in the 3rd grade. it is possible for kids that young to have sex, but i have never seen one that would have gone through puberty and been able to impregnate anyone. i think you and him are full of it.
2007-03-02 22:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Boys don't produce sperm, in the true sense until puberty. So it is impossible for a 9 yr old to get anyone pregnant! (I'm not disputing the fact that they had sex just the possibility of pregnancy). Look it up in the medical books if you don't want to believe me.
Whoever told you that a 9 yr old got her pregnant is lying...it was probably someone else and she doesn't want to say.
PS...who's been taking care of the baby for 3 years and how didn't her parents notice her pregnancy? Even if she did hide her pregnancy from her parents...any hospital she went to to give birth would notify her parents!
2007-03-02 22:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by pamomof4 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
this incident is very unlikely to occur. the boy is 9 and development of sperm does not develop until you're, say 11 or 12. normally, you produce the semen first, but not always it has sperm in them. the girl, yes might get pregnant at this age (12), cos, they develop earlier than boys do. dont you think she might have been gotten pregnant by someone older than the 9 year old boy?
2007-03-02 23:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by lex p RN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do the parents not know that an 11 yr old had a baby? what happened to the baby? these things matter on what you should do?
2007-03-02 22:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
were u the 9 year old?
how do the parents not know where has the baby been?
if you really need help
see a counselor see what they say
see a priest
whats best for the baby?
2007-03-02 22:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
So why are you telling us "SO DEAL WITH IT" you shouldn;t do anything. Let them handle it. So he was 9 and she was 11.... now he is 12... I think you're full of sh*t. She couldn't have been pregnant for 3 years, and the parents would've found out already.
2007-03-02 22:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let your parents take care of the baby while you do school.
2007-03-02 22:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is this anything to do with you, or are you just poking your nose in after hearing gossip!? If you know, then why don't you keep it to yourself instead of blabbing it all over the net, making it harder for the young couple! there are good people and bad people in this world! And then their is you!!!!!
2007-03-02 22:30:59 · answer #11 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋