about a year ago I started having these feelings. First, it was about my best friend's older sister. I felt like I wanted to have woman on woman sex with her and with other girls. She told me that she felt the same way when she was about my age, but she grew out of it. I thought I did too. That was until I started having feelings towards two of my best friends. I can't stop looking at their chests and their asses. I dont necicarily want to do the same thing with them-one because they wouldnt understand. I see two girls at my school who are bi and everyone's perfectly fine with it-but when people found out the first time with me, everyone was so scared of me. Noone would talk to me or anything. They think I'm not bi anymore and they're starting to talk to me again. If I'm bi, I don't wanna come out in fear of noone-not even my friends-not talking to me, and I'm still in deep question if I am bi. What can I do? and how do i know if im bi in the first place?
2007-03-02 13:38:35 · 2 answers · asked by Gotha 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If it is more than fantasies you have about women, like wanting to be in a relationship with one, that is one way to tell. If you don't feel comfortable letting everyone know what you feel inside, then you don't have to. Friends are not people who will judge you simply because of who you are inside, I don't think it would be worth befriending anyone if they couldn't accept something like that. People who are openly gay are okay with other people knowing about it because they had to build up to being okay with who they are. Its not a process that just happens overnight. It took me a long time before everyone knew how I was, and now that they do, they still judge about that sometimes, but not towards me as a person. And don't worry about coming out with it if you are not even sure. After some time passes you will probably be much more sure about what you are feeling inside. All the best to you :)
2007-03-02 17:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by catfight1980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you catch yourself staring at there chest and ass all the time then you're pretty much bi. The more you fight it the more you'll have to resist it.
2007-03-04 21:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by its_whatever11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋