hey! i just lost my best friend cuz of a huge fight!!! we've had fight s before, but this one was a big one!! and think she's set on not being friends!! we both said mean things!! some things we didnt mean!!!!!! i still want to be friends!!!! what should i do???
2007-03-02 13:29:42 · 27 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would take time off and recoup. then after some time has passed i would go and see my friend to see if there is a possiblity if they have changed their minds. you never know if you dont try but people always need some time off to gather there thoughts. there is also a possiblity that if you give them time to themselves they might come back to you first.
2007-03-02 13:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by loveliliekisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends make up! No matter what you both have to come to see you were wrong and one has to admit it. All you can do is say your sorry you made a mistake and if you not forgiven then there is nothing you can do. My best friend hasn't talked to me in two years. I said I was sorry and I changed my life for the better, but she stuck on the old life and I can't make her move on, nor can I make her forgive me, even if part of what I did wasn't considered wrong, I did apologize. I have learned that if you don't forgive you don't move forward in life. So be the so called bigger person and apologize, and go from there. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-02 13:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by rainingonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the situation cool for awhile. I also had a fight with my friend. She was the very first friend I made as a child. We didn't speak for yrs. I was seriously injured in an accident & she was the first person I saw after I awoke 2 days later. Since then we have never let any thing come between us. True friends are a gift to be treasured for life. If you have to, be the first to recant & apologize. Don't let to much time pass before extending the olive branch. Marie
2007-03-02 13:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell her how you feel. Dont be childish and wait for her to call you cuz u feel its not ur fault and u shouldnt apologize. Im pretty sur you both have been through alot to lose her over an arguement. You shouldnt let anything come in between you two especially a guy. your best friend is going to be there no matter what and guys will always come and go. Im preet sure she feels the same way but you be the better person and call her.
2007-03-02 13:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first did you do anything that can't be forgiving ? Like cheat with her BF ?? If you think you have done harm and apologizes to her. I'm going through about the same thing and she is not talking to me right now..she may never speak to me again. There is nothing I can do about that.
1) Apologies.. and do it face to face. !!!
2) Tell her you said things you shouldn't
3) You still love her to death and want to be friends
4) Walk away with your head held high and don't cry in front of her ( she might emotionally blackmail you)
5) Give her time and space, if she doesn't contact you again then move on...(give her a couple of weeks to almost a month.)
2007-03-02 13:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are sorry that you said all those mean things to her. Tell her that you want to be friends again. Tell her that no matter what happens that you will always be there for her. Well only tell her/him that if you really mean it. It really sucks when you lose a best friend i know. But you gotta be the person to say you are sorry. She/He is probaly stubborn so they wont say sorry first. Just tell them how you feel. Pour your heart out to him/her. I am sure they will do the same. I hope this helps, i hate it when i get into fights with my best friend as well.
2007-03-02 13:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that happen it really sucks! It happend because i was pulling her down into partying to much and drinking, etc...but anyways all you really need to do is wait it out for a week or 2, if she talks badly about you dont say anything bad about her, be nice to her if she talks to u, and sooner or later if you guys are truly best friends then she wont be able to stand it as much as u! It will all work out
2007-03-02 13:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is apologize for what you said. if she forgives you it is great and if she doesn't then there is really nothing you can do. that is why you should always think before you speak because once the words are out there is no way of taking them back and they will be in your heart the rest of your life.
2007-03-02 13:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by mama bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only worth trying to repair if she is your only friend. If she isn't, I would just let it go. If a friend turns into an enemy, it's usually permanent, because you know almost everything about them, good and bad, and yet that didn't prevent the argument.
2007-03-02 13:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step away for a few days and call her later. Explain you are sorry and want to have her in your life. What can you do to help her forgive? And what can you two do to prevent this from happening again?
2007-03-02 13:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋