I'm mad at my best friend right before my birthday party! Help!?

Question

My best friend is being really mean and flirting with my crush, she thinks she so cool because she has a cell phone and I don't. I really mad at her and my b-day party is in 2 days and I don't know what to do!!! Please help me!

Answer 1

best friends are usually mean to each other. not in a very direct way, just little comments here and there. just have a big heart and accept that and remember to always be nice and to never stoop to theyre level. if she gets really mean, just talk to her about it. if you two are really that close then she'll listen

Answer 2

wow, this is a sticky situation you're in right now

what you need to do is talk to her face to face (or over im if u have im/instant messaging) and tell her how you feel. does she know that he's your crush? if she does, then that's just plain not cool. maybe she likes him too? you could ask her that? if she doesn't, ask her why she is flirting...maybe its just sumthin that she naturally does? or she isn't realizing how much she's hurting you?

tell her that its "whatever" that you have a cell phone, cuz guess what, later in life pretty much everyone needs to have a celly. look her straight in the eyes and be like "i really don't appreciate you acting better than all of us just because you have a cell phone." if you can resolve things then invite her to your birthday party. do your other friends think she is also kind of a snob? if she starts bragging again at your party make sure everyone knows how YOU feel about her and make sure that they respect your thoughts and feelings for your lame friend.

if her act doesn't clean up, you can forget about her coming to your party. give her that day to think about what she's done. tell her that if she changes her act then she can call you the day of the party and maybe (or most likely since she's your best friend) you'll bring her back into your life.

but...is she a really fun person 2 b with?

Answer 3

well first of all your crush is going to make his own decision about who he likes. and second your friend has been your friend for longer than you have known your crush. crushes come and go especially at your age one day you like something like a boy band next week you could like some other singer in a band or group. I don't discount your friends new look in llife either she is just learning she is appealing to others and she may rub it in your face she has things you don't but if you are true friends it will wear off soon you will also need to remind her or tell her you don't like that she is rubbing your nose in the fact you don't have what she has she may not really even notice she is doing it. you also may want to take a second and see if you are not a little jealous as well. which is making you just a little more touchy on the subject. ultimately if she doesn't want to change her ways she never was a good friend and you need to find some good friends even if that seems hard to do. invite her to the party but remind her your friends first and not rivals for boys or toys.

Answer 4

If you have other friends, you can afford to disown her. If you don't, well, it's all up to you. When a friend flirts with your crush they're really not a friend. I tested out a friend by telling him I had a crush on a girl, but I told him it was a different girl than the one it really was. He ended up going to see her everyday at her workplace. I don't know why he did that, but I'm glad I didn't tell him who it really was. That kind of thing is not something a friend would do. It's something an enemy would do. People are strange, aren't they?

Answer 5

If your best friend knows you have a crush on this guy, perhaps she is trying to see how he feels about you, in a sly sort of way. Ask her what's going on and keep an open mind. It could all be innocent. If she is interested in him also, then you two can talk about it and when it comes right down to it - the guy might decide he is not interested in either one of you. Is that possibility worth harming your friendship?

Answer 6

friends are always gonna be there even when guys arent, but if she was a true friend she wouldnt flirt with your crush,and who cares about a cell phone, with all the radiation in it they can give you cancer, if this friendship really means alot too u, then be friends if not then get over it and make a new best friend

Answer 7

Cell phones aren't that important, and they certainly don't make you cool.

Forget about your crush, guys aren't that important. Also, if she has no respect about the guy's you're crush then she's not a good friend.

I'd say to confront her about it and tell her what you think and feel about what she's doing. If you two end up in this huge fight and aren't friends anymore, it'll be okay, she's not a great friend if she gives up on your friendship.

Answer 8

well you can ask her to come over, tell her you don't want to loose her friend ship,tell her she hurt your feelings,but you would like to make up if she will be willing to change her ways.if she really cares about your friendship she will be willing to try,if not you don't need a friend that tries to still your guy .as for the phone try getting a baby sitting job or some way to earn the money for a phone too. or.tell mom,dad you want phone for your birthday.good luck and hope you have a happy birthday.

Answer 9

okey ask her what she is doing? then talk about to her about why you are mad and that (if she knows) she knows you have a crush on your crush and realy the best thing you can do is forgive her and just continue on with life , if your crush likes your freind and not you then that is what your crush thinks and you can not make someone like you. ) :

Answer 10

Your friend sounds a bit abusive. I once had an abusive best friend, and turned out she was actually really jealous of me.
just don't invite her. and make sure to let her know that what she is doing is wrong, or else she might continue it.