my friend is in love with me and i dont like him back?

Question

i dont like him back...he just doesnt get a clue im always screaming at him becouse he never leaves me alone,im not mean...the screams are more like,"you are too close to me"becouse hes always trying to get too close to me and i always talk about other boys to give him a hint but he just doesnt open his eyes,and thats not all HES THE SON OF MY HARDEST TEACHER i just dont know what to do anymore the boy is always there,i talk to someone hes there im in the library hes there and hes always anoying me,help help help

its not sexual harasment he just likes to be with me and i totaly ignore him becouse i just dont know how to make him understand ive tried it al!!!and people dont take it the wrong way im only 13!!!

Answer 1

i was in a similar situation as you for awhile (luckily, the guy who liked me wasn't as stalker-ish as your guy seems to be... he just liked me for a long time...)

if you keep on ignoring his pleas for attention, then he'll just try harder. sit down and KINDLY tell him that you just want to be friends. if he continues to harass you, tell him again. if he STILL harasses you, talk to your parent, a school counselor, or a trusted teacher about the situation. if you've asked him to stop bugging you, and he hasn't, that's harassment and it's ILLEGAL.

good luck!

Answer 2

Tell him that as much as you appreciate him, it's no going to work out. And if he keeps stalking you, kick his balls HARD! Don't feel pressure 'cause he's your hardest teacher's son, you don't need him to pass that class. You're smart! Just ignore him, make him know you're not interested in him, and if he doesn't understands, tell him the harsh truth. Good luck!

Answer 3

boys always like what they cant have. so you talking about other guys and trying to push him away will just make him want you more. i think the best thing to do is just go up to him friend wise and tell him look i understand that you like me and all but im honestly not really into you. just try to be friendly with him instead of pushing him away and just be honest with him.

Answer 4

You need to sit down with him and lay down the law there. You really need to say something like, "We are friends, and that is where the line is drawn, I do not like you more than a friend, is it that hard of a concept to understand?" or if he gets really annoying, report him to a school administrator/counselor and resolve it.

Answer 5

Hey girl, well i've had this issue before. Trust me it's not easy to deal with. Here's wat i did. I stopped talking to him as much. I'm not sayin i stopped talkin to him. I just stopped so he wouldn't get the idea that i liked him back. U can't make it seem like u like him or else he'll stay bugging u. Try and let him do his thing. He'll soon realize that he's not getting anywhere and he'll stop.

Answer 6

i say sit him down and explain it to him in a nice way that you just want to be friends and tell him hes scaring you because he probably doesnt even realize it but sometimes you really gotta be blount with someone if you want them to understand how you feel

Answer 7

Sounds like sexual harassment. Talk to your school counselor and your parents.

You may want to change schools.

Answer 8

IF u dont like him, then tell him , tried not to be so harsh, but if that doesn't work, then no ms. nice guy, walk up to him and said what u think about him, and he shouldnt always be so near you.

Answer 9

you know why your friend likes you? because you allowed him to be your friend. that gave him the signal to raise the limits on how far he can get your fun hole. you need to give him some sucky sucky down below to teach em a lesson.

Answer 10

y dont u tell the truth. tell him dat u dont luv him, just friend. u said sorry.