Ok, so me and my friend are REALLY good friends and we get along really well. The only thing that annoys me is that sometimes she gets really sure of herself and brags too much... she is REALLY pretty and like ALL the boys love her, and she knows it. Well i am not very pretty, sometimes i feel really ugly. She spends hours always telling me how ALL the guys try to flirt with her and call her beautiful and she talks as if she's complaining, but really i know that she likes it because she smiles and she flirts back. And im thinking, wow if only just one guy liked me. I am very nice about it and listen to all her stories and give her advice, but sometimes her bragging annoys me a little.. also whenever i tell her a story about a guy who might like me, she looks at me and raises her eyebrows and says, 'he's probably just messing with you, or joking.' How insulting and concieted she is to think that she is so much better than me. Has anybody experienced this or have any tips?
2007-03-02 12:16:15 · 3 answers · asked by Mysterious Person 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh also i dont really want to talk to her about it because then i would seem like the "jealous friend" and i don't want to ruin our friendship or make her think that i am jealous and desperate.
2007-03-02 12:21:56 · update #1
She is probably really insecure all and all. she needs to talk like that to make herself feel better. And when you tell her that you think a guy might like you, she is probably the one who is jealous.The guys that look at her, probably aren't the kind of guys you want to be with anyway. They are all probably just after one thing. And for some reason they think they can get it from her. Maybe it's her behavior. In the end they would just dump her anyway, she wouldn't be the type they would care about and want to take home to mom. And if she keeps talking to you like that, she really isn't a very good friend. Friends support each-other, not make each-other feel bad about themselves.
2007-03-02 12:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My Gosh! I KNOW EXACTLY HOW THIS IS! My best friend, I'll call her Anna,Is always flirting! every boy likes her and she pretends like it's such a burden to have any guy that you want. Well, a first easy but hard to follow tip : Ignore her..sooner or later it will backfire in her face and the guy will have been just kidding when he said he liked her. Another tip: BE CONFIDENT! Even if you don't think you're pretty,(( which i'm sure you are =] )) then at least have somebody good inside you. tip 3: Talk to the boy you like! If you have any guy friends, picture yourself talking to them. Trust me this works, I have a feeling that my friend Anna isn't admitting, but she likes the same boy I do..and on AIM he's in "my Boi's" section when she doesn't talk to him anyway. Now since i do talk to him, I think he likes me.Please don't let her cocky manner make you feel bad about yourself. Good Luck.
By the way, when she says a boy is joking about liking you, ask her why she would think that. Maybe then you'll find out if this girl is really your friend, or even worth complaining about.
Good luck!
2007-03-02 23:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by TheyCallMeClaire© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o my gooolllly gosh,,,, i swear your talking about my best friend.. she does the same exact thing...and i have such a better personality than her,,, but i gotta admit she is sorta pretty,,, much more than me at least.... well i dont really know what to do though,, cuz it bugs the heck out of me and i guess,, i just listen to her still even though its soo dumb... just try to start new conversations.
and ur probably not as ugly as u think,,,,,,,,
2007-03-02 12:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Keayr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋