i lost my virginty at freshman year and if i were to get preggo right now i wouldnt hav no clue who the fther. i slept wit guys that i dont even kno there name. im now 18. and i found this really awesome guy i've been friends wit him scince freshman year im now a senior. and i dont know its diffrent wit him lik i ussaly hav s e x with anyone whose attractive but wit him idk. were so close i've kissed him before but anyway we love eachother but im afraid that he willget his feelings hurt by me. i never had a boyfriend nor parents so i get kinda lonely i hav a huge 3 story empty house all the time. im rich but that dosent make me happy as it would for some people im failing school my mom dont love me im bored and alone
what should i do!??
2007-03-02 12:02:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i dont hav stds or aids i checked okay
i just wanna die
2007-03-02 12:17:06 · update #1
Listen... if you're serious about this guy, you need to put all your other sex buddies aside. I ended up marrying my best friend from high school, and we're happy... this guy could be the answer to your loneliness and could very well end up making you very happy, but you must first be ready to be loyal to him. If he loves you and you love him back, the sex will be the least of your worries. Treat him good and learn to respect yourself... and shame on your mom... maybe she's lonely too... and doesn't know how to express her love to you... take care of yourself.
2007-03-02 12:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by belltrix86 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ok i get where u're coming from. U use sex to not feel lonely becuase your mom dosen't love u or have time for u. You should go get some conseling and try to not have sex with your buddies. And with this guy try not to have sex with him for a long time so your relationship can be based on something else other than sex. You should also try to do better in school i know your rich and everything but you still should go to college and major in something. And anytime you feel lonely you should talk to a friend becuase if you keep it bottled up it will hurt you more. If you want you can e-mail me angel_blue_jen@hotmail.com if you need any advide or need someone to talk to.
2007-03-02 14:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny0305 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay busy! get your mind focused set a goal and don't stop till you reach it. i know you don't have to trip about money since your rich (ps: wanna give me some, im really poor) but people that need to work to survive set economic goals focuse on school grades for collage something positve i had that problem i was a non stop sexual machine but it was because i wasn't under any parenting supervision and i wasn't even going to school or working i had nothing to do at all untill i got a job now im working at six flags in a costume having a hell of a life time with my paycheck and i still have a goal to own a urban clothing store in my city so good -luck with that and stay possitve before u become possitve (H.I.V)
2007-03-02 15:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ernesto g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should study for school and stop doing it with boys. And if your rich and 18 I'd just move out if I were you. Get a place of your own ya know?
Just finish up school. And if your lonely, get a dog. (yes I'm serious) Dogs can really be a big help in problems like this.
2007-03-02 14:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Serioiusly hun - you need to quit sleeping around. Aren't you worried about STD's? You need to value yourself more than you have been. You are more than a vagina - and that's what these boys will see you as if you don't stop.
And if you really like this new guy - don't sleep with anyone else. In fact - wait a long while before sleeping with him - Love does not equal sex - and love should come first.
2007-03-02 12:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah what's misguided with the youngsters of as we talk? No you would be unable to make your man or woman judgements, you will comprehend that as quickly as you have your man or woman teenagers, and once you're slightly older and comprehend that no 14 year old is mature adequate to make their very own suitable judgements. With that stated, to respond to your questions; no there is not any way she would be waiting to tell by skill of the variety you walk or something, wanting her walking in on you 2.
2016-09-30 03:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop. No question about it!!! Honestly you sound like a brat and I really am sorry to say that. Not only that but you spelling is Horrible! There is a spell check. You say you have never had parents then you go on to say that "my mom dont love me"! Honey get help!
2007-03-02 13:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by ~Jules~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, see a doctor and get a prescription for the Pill. As for the prospective boyfriend, be nice to him and see what develops. It is likely that he will be interested in sex if the relation develops, and you will be ready for it if it does.
2007-03-02 12:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to all the peeps who are saying ur this and that dont listen 2 them.
im sorry ur alone and stuff hun
if ur using condoms or w/e its fine
talk 2 this guy tell him how u feel
tell him he isnt like the other guys
2007-03-02 14:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, get in a church youth group and some cousenling! I am glad you found the guy of your dreams, but as the part with all the other guys, you seriously need to do what I suggested. Hope this helps.
God Bless!
2007-03-02 12:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by Apfel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋