I got a good friend whenever we get into an argument they always have to go thru someone else first. This argument lasted 2 months and now she is starting to talk to thru other person to reach me why can't they just come to me first? i don't get it.
2007-03-02 11:57:47 · 8 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because ppl are stupid, they feel as though they can't address the issuses themselves . My advice is make it plan to all, unless the person is coming to you directly YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-02 12:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by VIRA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. This USE TO happen to me all the time. The reason your friend is using someone to talk to you is because it'll them the awkward feeling and silence between you two. Because maybe they shy, or scared at what you might do or say. And expecially to avoid the awkwardness of being in a fight. You should try talking to them in person and go up to them
2007-03-02 20:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you or your friend is but it sounds like you may be a little young and this happens quite a bit with youths, just go up to the person and talk to them, take the first step and show that you are more mature..
2007-03-02 20:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by kalynn h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just afraid that if she does show her feelings to you, you might not be as accepting as she hopes you would. And to avoid that she goes through someone else she thinks she can trust. I would talk to her about it. But if she says something that you don't like, don't get defensive. That might make her close up more.
2007-03-02 22:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by The Redheaded Monster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship works two ways, If you are stubborn maybe your friend is too. someone has to be the bigger person sometimes but not all the time. the load gets heavy sometimes, maybe you can share.
2007-03-02 20:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lourdes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they most likely don't want to come straight to you because they fear you will still be mad or they might have to admit they where wrong about something. Maybe you should go to her. Try e-mailing her or calling her. figure out what up and ask her why she didn't come to you.
2007-03-02 20:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by caliiforniia.sunshiine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of Allah's Wrath...
2007-03-02 20:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your "friend" needs to grow up.
2007-03-02 20:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by chattykatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋