My friend and I are really close and recently we just got over a big fight and break, so things were still getting patch. Well, earlier this week we had another "fight" and we havent spoke all week. We are best friends and I want to be friends again, but what should I do to initiate talking? Should I even initiate it, or wait?
I'm not even sure if I want to be friends yet (still a little angry) but we're spending all day tomorrow together with a friend of both of ours...help?
2007-03-02 11:56:46 · 4 answers · asked by [?] 2 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
Just start talking again. The longer you let things go without at least trying to sort them out, the harder it gets. Another thought is to start the "remember when's" and bring up all the crazy and fun stuff you've done, that bonds your friendship in the first place.
2007-03-02 12:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by pixey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take your friend aside and talk to him/her about the fight....if it was your fault....accept responsibility for your action and apologize......and then tell that person what they did wrong to make an argument happen. If it was his/her fault...tell them why you got mad or hurt and tell him/her sorry for saying this and that. Let that person know that you care a lot about them and that you think it's childish that you guys fought to begin with. Let that person know how much your friendship means to them and ask him/her if they think the fight is worth losing a good friend over it.....if you want to remain friends tell him/her that you don't think the fight is worth losing him/her. Does the crime fit the punishment? Think about it like that.....True friends are hard to find.....you guys are obviously friends for a reason....whether you guys have things in common...or there is trust or loyalty! Trust me....this is the best advice I can give you: You're friendship couldn't be defined if there weren't any fights to shape your relationship. That's what friends do.....fight. Just like you would fight with your brother or sister. It's part of getting to know each other better and growing with each other. Let it go and keep your friend. Fights are an advantage to build a foundation for your friendship!
2007-03-02 20:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I think you have the category...
2007-03-02 19:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mac-C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wrong category!
2007-03-02 20:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋