i love him sooooo much but i neva c him and he knows how much i love him !! recently i have been told he has been sleeping around but i dnt believe it he told me that he really likes me and that he hasnt been sleepin around sooo i really do believe him but now he is accusing me of sleepin with sumone !! should i believe him or not ?? plzzzz help meeee :(:( i am soooooo down at the min all i do is sleep i dnt go out or noffin i think i am stressed i am only 16 and he is 17 !!! help !!!
2007-03-02
11:52:22
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i dnt want to lose him again because the last time i lost him i turned to over doseing my self !!! u mite think i sound silly but he is my first love if i lose him i am nothing but a nervous wreck help me please i need yous to help me !!! b4 i do something silly that will hurt my close family and friendsss please helppp !!!!!!!
2007-03-02
11:59:20 ·
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he is my one and only if i look at anyother guy i dont think twice because i love him sooooo much i feel i am have nothing with out him i know i have my family but i have always had the i want something different
2007-03-02
12:04:39 ·
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if i have to lose him again i wil honestly try to kill myself bcz he is my world !!! i am nothing without him !!
2007-03-02
12:20:44 ·
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first of all if you loved him you wouldn't believe what you "heard" about him. usually loving someone involves TRUST.
sounds like you two are good for eachother
good luck
2007-03-02 11:59:00
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answered by tinkbostwick 4
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When I was 16 i had an infactuation with a guy 2 years older. He never knew and I was miserable thinking he was the one, loved him so much.
You may feel love or it may be a teenage crush but it sounds like if he doesnt want to be with you all the time then he doesnt feel the same way. Save yourself the heartache and let him go. You're only young and when you're in love you will really know it but at this age there is more important things to do then overdose over a boy and sleep and be miserable. Get yourself into a new sport, music, even just hang with some mates all the time and get your mind off him. It's not normal to be miserable at 16 over a boy. Your education is important at this time and your moods are ever changing due to hormones. Teenage hood is a tough time for some and not for others so don't worry about the boy. sorry if thats not what you want to hear but if you stay loving this kid you'll only be hurting yourself and no one else. Move on, forget and be happy in other parts of your life. Another soul isn't the person to make you happy ONLY YOU CAN MAKE YOUR OWN HAPPINESS.
2007-03-02 20:12:01
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answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2
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Have you ever heard the phrase "A good offense is a good defense?" That seems to be what your boyfriend is employing here. You accused him of sleeping around and now he's attempting to take the focus of the investigation off of HIM and what HE's doing by turning the tables on you and accusing you of the same thing. What does he hope to gain by this? You spin your wheels defending yourself and he gets to play wounded victim. By the time he decides to let it go and stay with you, you will (he figures) have learned your lesson. And what is that lesson, you may ask? Not to question what he does, because if you do, he'll start accusing you of sleeping around all over again. Basically, my dear, he's attempting to train you.
2007-03-02 20:02:03
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answered by Emily Dew 7
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You are a wreck, and he doesn't want to be involved with you any more because you are miserable to be around. If he is accusing you of sleeping with someone it might be because he doesn't have the heart to tell you the truth, so he is using it as an excuse to end it with you. Honestly I hate to sound harsh, but look at your desperate behaviour. Is this kind of behaviour something you would find attractive in a man?
2007-03-03 06:45:52
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answered by pamperpooch39 5
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u are 16....i dont mean to sound patronising but at 16 u have ur whole life ahead of u,my sister is 15 if she was threataning her own life over some idiot i would personally take her to the doctors and get her head sorted.u are obviosly not stupid cos u said that u would leave behind all the people that love u,no one is worth putting ur family through something like that. you havent grown up yet everybody has a first love im not saying that it never works cos it does but 9/10 times first loves split and u just need to get on with it there are going to many things in ur life that get u down and everytime u fail or mess up wat r u going to do turn around to those close to you and say "im going to kill myself" people will soon tire of it,and u may loose family and friends because of it. just get over him live ur life enjoy yourself and u will find a good man one day......whats the rush???
2007-03-03 14:04:06
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answered by emma b06 3
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AHhhh poor babe !!! Your to young to be in love, go and enjoy yourself with your mates and forget about him. It's not worth being upset over a bloke who you don't really see or trust. May be he is playing away, if he has started accusing you, could be he is the guilty one. You say you have been told he's sleeping about, who is telling you this !! could be they are jealous and are trying to split you up. try talking to him and tell him how you feel. If you do get proof that he is playing about, get rid.. you have years to find Mr right. There is a saying we kiss many frogs before we find our prince !!
All the best
2007-03-02 20:08:56
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answered by Anonymous
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For you to even think that you are nothing without your man is sad, you are a valuable human being and you need to see that. At worst you need to talk to someone in your family about this, at best stop listening to other people and look inside yourself. If you are in any doubt at all that he is being truthful tell him to leave (his accusations at you indicate guilt). Move on and up, there is someone out there that will love you for who you are, all you need to do is expose yourself to the danger of finding them.
2007-03-02 20:37:35
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answered by montyscan01 1
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Well why is he accusing you of slepin around? He might have a guilty concious......Find out the girls he his suppose to be sleepin with, and i kno this sounds psycho, but if you can, follow him one day and see where he goes. Just dont let him see you. If he goes to another girls house, hes a lien *** cheat
2007-03-02 19:58:41
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answered by vbolden88 3
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More likely than not depending on how reliable your sources are he is sleeping around, usually the guilty try to avert the guilt on to someone else in order to justify what they are doing. By accusing you of sleeping with someone else he is making you feel guilty so you won't worry about what he is doing rather you will focus your energy on trying to redeem yourself in his eyes. You deserve better, someone who can be honest with you no matter what the situation not someone who tries to twist the guilt around on you.
2007-03-02 19:58:01
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answered by cheesussinclair 2
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I hated too when I'm being pulled two ways too. Who told you he's been sleeping around? Your friends? If it's your friends that's like # of friends to one of him. If your friends didn't say that be cautions and trust him. Wait a minute! He's 17 and you hear rumors of him sleeping around...... O barth. What ever you do, don't sleep with him.
2007-03-02 19:59:57
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answered by Robby M 3
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You need to forget him because he is bringing you down. You are too young to be with just one person. Make yourself happy first the right guy will come along when you are your happiest about you.Think about what you want out of life for you first.
2007-03-02 19:57:48
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answered by peanutbulls 4
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