ok im a bi girl... and i used to like this girl in my class and she found out i liked her and she would never let it go and she would ALWAYS call me freak and stuff like that... and i kept telling her i didnt like her... but then over the summer she sent me an IM and told me she liked me but i wasnt sure if she meant it or even knew i got it... cuz she kept denying it... and kept calling me freak.... but then i finally stoped liking her a few weeks ago... and ever since i stopped liking her... i have noticed her looking at me more than she ususally dose... like today in gym class i was behind her and she kept look back at me and i got soo annoyed yet confused... and during class every time i glance her way i see her looking at me.... and she kept giving me this hott look... like a look sum1 gives when they think the person they are looking at is hott... and i dont like her but i o think shes sexy... but is she checking me out? or what?
2007-03-02 11:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by i am the one and only me 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im not sure if shes bi or not
2007-03-02 11:46:50 · update #1
she might like you and just be embarassed to admit her orientation, but be careful because it could be a trick to just embarass you...
2007-03-02 11:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only she can really say for sure, I think though that she has show at the very least that she is not mature enough to discuss it with you yet. If you are over your attraction for her I wouldn't let her passing glances bother you in any way. Of course next time she looks at you like that you could give her a quick but deliberate wink. If she blushes and turns away it is a pretty good indication that she is interested but is probably too shy or insecure to talk about it. If she gets a disgusted look on her face and says something nasty then you know she doesn't feel any different than before. Of course if she reacts badly then you just deny that you did anything to provoke her. A reaction somewhere between those two is not as easy to gage but it might start her thinking about getting up the courage to talk with you honestly.
2007-03-02 20:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by J J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems she may be calling you a freak either because the idea really does scare her or because she doesn't want her other friends to know that she may be into you too... in other words she may be a "Closet Bi" . It seems she likes the attention that you were giving her and when you stopped she didn't like it. If you are really over her, don't pay attention to her anymore.... it seems she is just playing mind games with you. If you still like her, talk to her in private.
2007-03-02 19:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by xxfallenstarxx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhh, be careful..maybe she's looking for more fuel to her idiotic 'want to harass you' fire. In school, you need to be cautious, cause a lot of kids look for things to make fun of or point out to others as 'weird' or different.
I feel that if she liked you, she would at least ask to hang out, or if she's shy, she would approach you in some way...like "Do you have Friday's english homework?" or something.
Maybe she's looking to see if you're checking her out so she can tell her friends you're a stalker...who knows?
Just be careful...and good luck!
2007-03-02 19:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Teel H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe give it a chance u will never know what will happen
2007-03-02 19:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by michelle_markwica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u should when your alone with her ask if she is bi. it cant hurt.. by the way... are you actually bi or lesbian?
2007-03-02 19:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by *skater* 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-03-02 19:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by rodent f 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋