me and my friend used to be part of a social group with all our friends but one girl has started to become more powerful than the other people... she is crazy... she bosses everyone around and yet still people are her friend and listen to her... my guy friend was yelled at by her on the bus yesterday, and it was horrible. she tells all his friends they can't be friends with him anymore or else she won't be friends with them anymore. whenever anyone has a party, she only goes and eats the food... shes rich, but shes always has to "borrow" money from everyone and shes doesn't pay them back ever. and she only comes to social events if there is gonna be food (shes kinda fat)
shes recently decided me and my guy friends aren't good enough for her or her clique anymore even though we are both still friends with her friends. what can we do to make her life as miserable as possible (and hopefully gain some friends back in the process)? dont tell me that revenge isn't the answer.
2007-03-02 11:39:25 · 19 answers · asked by boyluvr26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
place her pic on craigslist, with the title "lonely & needin a lil company"..put her number and be sure to repost every 20 min
2007-03-02 11:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You won't like my answer...but in the future you'll have wished you listened. Remember.
Someone smart one time said that the best revenge against an enemy is to live well and be happy. This is so true. To try to gain power over them, is actually giving them power, because you are concentrating on them, instead of giving yourself personal power within yourself.
2007-03-02 11:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Ventacges is mine, say's the Lord" I think it's in (I can't spell it but, it begins with a D and in Chap. 32). Let the Lord take care of it and don't worry about. Maybe in the furture she'll regert and it and crawl back to y'all. "Eat The Rich" by Aerosmith. Well if y'all all still friends y'all stick together and ingore it or quit and stop being with her. If she's that rich she can get her own money and stop borrowing money from others. If y'all ain't good enough for her, forget her. Don't forget, "Ventacges Is Mine, Say's The Lord".
2007-03-02 11:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a waste of time plotting revenge.
Plot with your friend on how to have fun and don't include the friend who is obviously not a friend.
Sounds like she has to center of attention.
Not giving her it by ignoring her, not answering phone calls etc is your best revenge toward this person.
Eventually others will see what you are seeing on thier own as well and she will lose all her friends all on her own by how she is being.
2007-03-02 11:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the more mature one of the bunch, and set the example. Getting revenge is for little kids! If people are dumb enough to listen to her, let her yell at them, and boss them around they need to get a spine and put a stop to it, otherwise they get what they deserve!
2007-03-02 11:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your gonna go the revenge route (which i dont agree with) You should boss back up to her. Go sit at "her" lunch table and when she tells you to move look at her and say "why does your fat a$$ need more room? She prolly yelll at you and maybe threaten to hit you so make sure theres a teacher around if you think you cant beat her up. You'll prolly get suspended, but kids love drama and you will defiantly gain some friends back.....But is it worth your education? And you'll prolly get grounded...Is it worth your freedom? think about it........
2007-03-02 11:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that the best revenge in the world is Karma, and believe me it is real, what goes around really comes around, eventually. I have heard sugar in the gas tank works too, but don't be petty then you are no better than she is. Get yourself some better friends.
2007-03-02 12:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by cheesussinclair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! Sounds like something you will all laugh at when you get older! Revenge is no good, just move on and be happy!
2007-03-02 11:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by Minu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop acting like a 2 year old and get over it. getting revege is just going to make things worse. haven't you ever seen mean girls stuff like that happens trust me i know. just ignore what she is doing because she is only doing it for attention. if you ignore her she get tired of it and stop the behavior.
2007-03-02 11:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by I Like It 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you not take revenge. If you take revenge on her then someone else will take revenge on you. That's how life works.
Why don't you try loving her, understanding her, and putting yourself in her shoes. You may be pleasantly surprised.
FP
2007-03-02 11:42:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋