Who do you become when you are no longer yourself?

Question

Not like when your dead, when your sick of being yourself. Not some famous person, just not you. I am just sick of being me! I know that me life is pretty good compared to some. But different things happen to all of us and make each life hard like a test you can never pass, you think that your close to the end, but it turns out that there are 30 more questions you have to answer. Oh, sorry, not done yet, don't give up hope your almost there. Where is there? What are we living for? We live to die? We live to become richer, learn more things then anyone else's has? Big whoop. What about the people that go through life with no perpose? I feel like I'm here for no reason, but to suffer. I want to end the pain and go away never to return. Is that what happens in a coma? I go through the motions of everday life, like a robot on auto-pilot. While I'm at a complete stop just watching my life go by without my say in anything that happens. Or no hope for the future.

Answer 1

when you are no longer yourself youre...someone else.be someone else.choose a direction and go. even if its wrong do it.if you dont make a decision life will make one for you.and life makes sucky decisions.a friend asked me if i wanted to go out and do something,i said i dont know,he said well im going,i couldnt decide,so he left.i hesitated so life made the decision for me.sample life til you find something you like and then soak it up.

Answer 2

You become a shell of a person pretending to be someone else cuz you're sick of being YOU. And when your sick of urself what are you? a lost person in this fast paced world. Then life is never fun. You asked if we live to die. Yes actually we kinda do, but not in the way ur saying. We live to die cuz everyone is born then dies right? But while we're here we're supposed to live life. And you're here because you're parents put you here and unless you think ur parents want you to suffer, then youre not here to suffer, YOU'RE making urself suffer. And yes you do have a say in what happens in ur life. Okay yes, you don't have control over what u look like, etc., but you have control on how much money you make, how happy u are, who ur friends with, how many friends you have, how much people like to be around you, etc. Yes, I grew up with the "Life isn't fair" saying and you probably did too. So guess what? Grow up. Life ain't fair. Why'd you expect it to be anyways? I have my bad days just like everyone else. And also, do you believe in faith? EVERYTHING happens for a reason, whether you want to believe it or not. So I hope you realize that YOU'RE making ur OWN life suck, not anyone else.

Answer 3

I get the same feeling dear. Just recently I was rejected and fell into deep deep depression where I felt I was totally second rate trash. You probably get that feeling where you come so far but yet it's all for nothing. But still the truth is there is a purpose for you and a point of glory God sets for you.

Try something that makes a difference. Charity or helping others. It will fill you with purpose and cause. Even if you can't do those things, there is always someone you mean alot to. There is always an aweful defeat someone goes through, but know that you are one of few who could have handled it and you fought so hard regardless if you were to lose. And know that the next time it will be your turn to strike and your turn to win. Victory and triumph are still destined for you, just don't feel it is out of reach. Triumph may be closer than you think....

Answer 4

Wow! Here again I read about this sort of sad story.
LIFE is not a sad song to sing, but your making a desperate try, don't be offended a lot of people get this way in Winter Months.

When you feel lost this way, you need to up and away from the Computer. Create a new you. Get your hair done, go visit some one you haven't seen in awhile. Start a Hobby, or .....

one of your last statements is,"I want to end the pain..." you are defiantly not enjoying anything good in life at the moment. So, stop the pain, by getting up and doing something for YOU.

Hold on to Hope and read the Bible, everyone I know owns one, it's one of the best sellers on the world.

To answer no longer myself? I love me and although it took hard work at times, I would not want Not to be me.

Try prayer. Please it works.

Answer 5

Great question. I believe that a person's soul wants to give up because everything seems so old and nothing excites them the way it used to. I think that people lose who they are when they're no longer themselves; they lose who've they've lived up to be for so long. When others say don't give up yet, you're almost 'there' - 'there' is the end of the road, you've achieved what God has asked you to complete in this world, on this earth, and in this hell; your time is almost up - you'll make it this time, you'll make it to the next world where you finally belong. Life is God's test to those souls that got it wrong the first time around or in your other lifetimes. We're living because we've made mistakes in our other lifetimes and we must live again to get it right; to live the way God wanted us to. In a way, we do live to die because when our soul is released from our human body, we embrace our new life in a new body equipped for a new planet and THIS IS WHEN LIFE REALLY BEGINS! We live because God sends us on a quest for knowledge and truth in how to know him and to find out what he really wanted for his people. God gave us all talents that we use in this world that we carry on to the next but sometimes our only purpose is to find God's truth and knowledge.
I understand that you're feeling like there's no hope right now but I think you need a change in your environment; step out of what you're doing that makes you feel like a robot on auto-pilot. Find something to do that gives you hope, encouragement, and inspiration; do something or go somewhere you've never been. Give great thought to your life and write a list out of what you've achieved in life and what you'd like to further achieve. Take a moment off - I'd say save your money or take all the money you've saved and do something worthwhile!

Answer 6

It sounds like you are in a rut. Everyone has been there at sometime or another and life goes on. It is hard to deal with sometimes, the realization that no matter what happens life goes on. With or without a purpose life goes on, with or without change life goes on. It is up to you to make it interesting and liveable for yourself. Focus on the things that give you joy and satisfaction and dont be afraid to seek counseling, some people attatch stigma to this (ie only crazy people seek therapy), but sometimes it helps to have someone impartial to talk to. Good luck on your journey.

Answer 7

To first realize that all of us go through the same feelings and emotions you are going through and to realize it's O.K. - And know your not alone - Your are being yourself asking this question is a good sign your ready for new and exciting changes and that is a good thing

Answer 8

I find myself asking the same questions. I think it comes down to following the things in life that interest you. That and a healthy sex life!

I think you gotta find your own reasons for things. And chase everything that matters to you. Forget money & bullshit religions. Realize that every day holds potential.

Answer 9

Do something for someone else. It will get your mind off yourself and make you feel better about yourself. Volunteer your time at a homeless shelter, visit shut ins, tutor adults who can't read, or clean up the environment. You are going to feel bad if you are selfish and self absorbed.

Answer 10

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