I married 1 yr ago. My husband will be in the U.S. A. in May inshalah.
my bestfriend is gay. We have always kept in touch, but I am not feeling comfortable with her anymore. This is because I am getting a vibe she is attracted to me. I feel sick when I think about it because I do not care for her that way. I feel sometimes she crosses the line, but I try to ignore it. I am now tired of it. I do not want to deal with it anymore. How do I break our friendship outings without telling her the real reason why I cannot hang with her anymore? So far I have not been taking her calls. Please help and be sincere about it. All of this is so disturbing to me.
2007-03-02 11:21:35 · 13 answers · asked by "J" 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honestly, i cant give you an answer to help mislead someone gay or not!
i think you should just either find someone that knows she's gay and either have them ask if she's attracted to u or asked her yourself.
2007-03-02 11:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D R A M A!!! seem even if the lesbian replaced into immediately your different pals might want to hate her because she is jealous of "new" pals. i know that folk hate human beings via gay ingredient yet cmon... your str8 pal is dissatisfied because she appears like shes being left at the back of... she in a distinct grade and now shes no longer gay or Mexican. you want to reassure your pal that this new lady isn't the following to "replace" her and that you care deeply about her friendship. Be honest with both one in each of them and refer on your str8 pal discover out why she would not like your different pal.. i will inform you that it truly is actual no longer because she is gay... there is something else there. besides... talk with both one in each of them and perhaps in time issues will evolve to some extent at the same time as all 3 of you'd be close. best of luck.
2016-10-17 10:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kno shes gay, she knows shes gay, but maybe she doesnt kno that shes crossing the line. Tell her that somethings she sayd and does really bother you and make you feel uncomfortable. If it doesnt stop then stop being her friend, But i should at least try and save your friendship before you throw it away
2007-03-02 11:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you be honest with her about it?
Just let her know that you love her, but that you aren't attracted to her in that way.
Also, point out that you're married, which I'm sure she knows.
You shouldn't ignore someone like that, even in this situation.
That's just stepping away from your problems.
2007-03-02 11:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by megahot megababe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, girls can't be gay; it's called "lesbian." Anyways, maybe you are just imagining it. Try asking her about it. It's okay if someone is attracted to you, but it only gets bad when they talk with you sexually or do things to you that are sexual.
2007-03-02 11:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to break the friendship no matter how you do it she'll know the real reason why, so i would say you just be honest with her.
2007-03-02 11:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest.... theres no reason to hide anything... be totaly honest or else shes just going to get frustrated with you and no one likes having some one be frustrated at them, even if they are kinda disturbed about the situation.
i hope this helped...
2007-03-02 11:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by sarah t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you understand the lifestyle she chooses, it is just not your type of lifestyle and that you will still be her friend, but not her sex playmate!
2007-03-02 11:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her flat out that you love her as a friend and to please stop the advances or its good bye
2007-03-02 11:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her why, dont sit there and lie to her. if she makes you feel uncomfortable, tell her so. now dont be mean about it or anything, but be honest.
2007-03-02 11:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by alex jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋