y r men so confussing?

Question

its hard sometimes ive been w/ my b.f for sometime and its like one day hes great the nexxt day hes not ..when he gets mad i ask him whats wrong and he always says nothing. i ask him the next day and again he says nothing. and the same thing for the next 4 days until he pops and yells at me to leave him alone when he's ready to talk he'll tell me..than he goes the next week or more acting really strange...im really worried about him thats why i ask and i dont know how to stop..he knows this and still say take it slow...wtf ive been with him for well over a year and take it slow ur freaking 25 how much slower!!>>>? i dont know how to react to him he pushes away when hes going through things and calls me when he needs me... its like the weeks that pass and he acts strange i feel that he doesnt want to be with me.. idk what to do im really confusssed... pls help n e one

Answer 1

Maybe he feels like he's being pressured into something he's not ready for and you are, like taking the relationship to the next level.