2007-03-02 10:40:50 · 23 answers · asked by ndybabs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello,
I have been married to my gorgeous wife for 42 years, and never felt the need to cheat on her, I think that some men are just not happy with the woman thry married, and just keep on playing the field, as 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce mostly for the reasons of cheating, you would think twice before getting married in the first place. what I am happy about is deciding to marry my wife, and all the decisions we made in our life of love together, we have 11 children, all grown up, 4 of our own through the natural process, and 7 adoptees, we are Mammy and daddy to them all, and we did it on my wages as a truck driver, which makes both my wife and I very proud of what we have done, and 11 children very proud of us too..... and our family priest once asked us to be an advisers to couples wanting to marry, and we had to say no, because we had enough to do with our family, and my job sometimes kept me away from home for days on end, but in touch with my wife and family wherever I was at, as I had to work long hard hours with my truck to provide all those children with all their needs every day, Heavens, I never had time to think about messing around with other women. But hand on my heart I can still honestly say, I Love My Wife, dearly indeed. I am retired from my work now, and able to spend more time with my wife. So maybe the answer you are looking for is that Married men should find more at home to take their minds off other women, I hope so very much this helps you,....... Bye ...Tony M
2007-03-02 11:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by tony m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, it is because they are not being fulfilled emotionally or physically by their spouse. Real men would never cheat, but the males that do... have a need that is missing from their wives. Cheating is very rarely a sole-sexual desire.
2007-03-02 10:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sparky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could say that maximum adult men do no longer. Many do, in spite of the incontrovertible fact that. Too many for MY tastes. that's the very comparable way for women besides. As for myself, I even have never cheated on a woman decrease than ANY circumstances, on the same time as quickly as I KNEW that a breakup replaced into drawing close. I even have consistently waited until the relationshiop replaced into irretrievably finished with. i understand MANY adult men who sense precisely as I do approximately those issues and, i think of that extra human beings could desire to bypass around undertaking their relationships in this way. A relationship could desire to and may be outfitted on have faith and admire and to "cheat" on your substantial different is a betrayal of the two and, no longer an fairly honorable thank you to stay one's existence. Brightest reward, Raji the eco-friendly Witch
2016-10-02 07:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men may love their wives emotionally, but sex is a whole different matter. Often when we are married the fun goes out of our sexual relationship, and pressure from finances and family's can make us forget that a marriage needs a bit of spice to keep it alive. It happens with men, and with women. If we stop giving our partner the attention and adoration they need, they may go and seek it elsewhere. We all need to feel loved.
2007-03-02 22:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could i ask the question in reverse to you ??
people cheat it is life i don t and i never have and i can say i never will if my relationship got so bad with my wife i had to cheat i would leave her before i cheated
people who cheat are weak people who have no morals but it is not only men who cheat
2007-03-02 11:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men need the sense of excitement to reach a climax or feel passion after awhile....so someone new brings a whole rush of escitement...causing them to want to cheat more and more after the first time...if you want to keep him, your going to have to try new things with him... to keep him interested in you and noone else...try going into a love shop of some kind, and talk to the sales representative, dont be shy, try being more open....
2007-03-02 10:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Erica P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they enter the relationship as equals then something changes the balance or what they fell in love with becomes different.....maybe weight increases, attention goes, sex or time together lessens, daily distractions, family commitments kids etc.
Suddenly they are chasing that new relationship feeling again because its exciting it provides a thrill lthat is lacking....im sure the head wrestles with reasons not to but emotionally, physically they loose out.
To put it simply something always changes from when they hooked up and they cant work past it.
2007-03-02 14:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my boyfriend at the time but now my husband said he cheated on me because I would not listen to him and I was neglecting him. He said he needed some one to talk to. But I think that was a buch of bull.
2007-03-02 16:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by deshawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think just as many wives cheat these days.
I don't know why they do - don't ever believe the 'my wife doesn't understand me' line - he gets straight into his wifes bed!
2007-03-02 10:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's due to unsatisfaction in their relation . men always want more, want to change partners. it's more exciting.
when ever they find an opportunity to have sex with another women they get it. they don't miss it. so it's some kinda the fault of some women who allow themselves to pick ather women's men. and there is no really way out
wish you the best :)
2007-03-02 23:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋