So what if you're not sure about someone intentions???

Question

i.e. My new guy friend. Sometimes, I think he's really not feeling me. Then sometimes, I think he's holding back - scared that he may say something that will offend me. For instance he called me when he got off of work on tuesdat. He was very tired. He said that his company worked him very hard from 7:30am - 2:15pm. He gets off @ 3. So he asked me what time do I get off? and I told him 6 and it was like a pause. Like he wanted to ask me to stop by after work. I was going to say, why whats up? but chickened out too. I think we're both scared. He and my friend's fiance works together and he told my friend to tell me to call him and she sent his # through email. We were at work. I was questioning her about him. At the time I was more curious then anything.

Answer 1

Why don't you ask him out. Some guys just aren't confident enough to make the first move. Be subtle, but try it. He'll come around.

Answer 2

Try this dating trick....

Sit at a table accross from him.

Play with an object that is on the table in your hands and in your space. (like a salt shaker)

Then move the object into his space.

If he plays with it or leaves it in his space he is interested in you.

If he moves it back to the center or back into your space then he isn't interested in you.

Have fun with it. Make sure he sees you play with it and sees you put it in his space. Try not to be to obvious about it.

Answer 3

He might just be interested in you as more then a friend, but to afraid to do anything about it.

Or he may just be weird.

Answer 4

You being open and honest is your best bet holding back as you see doesn't work

Answer 5

Maybe you both have to speak freely!!!

Thats only the solution

Answer 6

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