what do i say to an annoying pest?

Question

my ex friend {she doesnt know it} keeps asking to come over to my house to spend the night. she came to my birthday party znd she was yelling and stomping around andwhen we had a BIG fight , she slamed my MOMS door in my face at my own house!!!! and she doesnt know how to behave at other peoples houses. and she is very sensitive! if you say that she is dumb, she will cry all day! so how do i tell her that i dont want her coming over to my house because my mom doesnt even want her there either. so how do i tell her that we dont want her over at our house?

and im always saying that im busy. and she says oh well! and i really didnt choose her as a friend. she just kind of hung out with my tripod group of friends then she started liking me more than her original friend! so that is some serious bootie! and she rides my bus too! so if i tell her up front, she will get so mad that she will tell a rumor about me. and people already think im kind of lame. but im still cool with them!

Answer 1

Tell her the truth and that her behavior is unacceptable expecially at your house. It should not be difficult to tell her.

Answer 2

tell her to f**k off!!! Whenever she wants to come over to your house tell her your busy or your going over to your relatives or something or if you have siblings say ur doing something with them. just act busy all the time

Answer 3

omg no offense but that was a bad selection as a friend :\ tell her that she cant come over because you are busy or that your parents wont let you. [if she asks why your parents wont let you say i dont know! its sucks.]

Answer 4

the only way is to tell her. even if she's sensitive. you can tell her first that it is going to hurt, and that you wish it wouldn't, but tell her. she is responsible for her own emotions and actions. so are you. if you do not want her there, you have to tell her.