2007-03-02 10:17:45 · 36 answers · asked by princess_icypink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dump them - hang out with the friends that do treat you right
2007-03-02 10:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you to just dump them is easier said than done. I've been in that very situation and still am at certain points. What I would suggest is to slowly stop hanging out with the people(s) who aren't kind to you. Don't ask them over and don't initiate a conversation. If they ask you to hang out tell them you can't. Slowly but surely they won't feel as connected to you.
If they do bring up a fight though handel it with an even temper. Make sure that you don't blame them or corner them. You will come out on top and they'll look like they're fighting with themselves.
Good luck and I hope you get better friends. Just talk to everyone! And experience the people who will love and respect you.
2007-03-02 10:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by candymeerkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them, ask them why they are treating you like crap. Give them some time to change, but if they keep treating you bad don't consider them friends, dump them. Find friends who take you for who you are and treat you right. If your friends keep treating you bad even after you dump them tell someone. No one deserves to be treated like that.
2007-03-02 10:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by .:Skylar.: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your friends a chance to change. Tell your friends that you don't feel like you're being treated right. If they are truly your friends they'll try and change. If they don't start treating you right, that means you need new (and better) friends.
2007-03-02 10:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by norm2120 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch them!!
If somone doesnt treat you well then they are not your friend. Go and meet people who respect you and treat you well. Try joining a social club or pursure your interests, this way you will meet like minded people. Maybe volenteer for a charity, good genuine people work in thes organisations.
2007-03-02 10:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Rob83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decide if you can keep up the fake smiles and hypocrisy, like you don't care when they screw you royally. If the effort is not worth it anymore, just shun them out of your life, no confrontation needed, just a clean cut and move on; believe me, 99.9% of the time they don't even ask why you're being so cold to them, they know they've wronged you.
Hypocrisy takes so much effort out of you, that you'll be glad you ended the "friendship"!
2007-03-02 10:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat them the same way and see how they feel. If they say anything about it let them know that its the way they've been treating you. If they see the light give them another chance. If they don't then just drop them. Don't feel bad about it either, they're probably jerks and don't deserve your pity.
2007-03-02 10:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by NiKkY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget them. I mean seriously, if you are in an abusive freindship get out of it. It's so not worth it. Have you treid talking to them? If you really don't want to leave them then try talking. If tehy still are mean to you forget them. You can find someone else better who treats you right... I promise!
2007-03-02 10:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily, I have friends who treat me right. But if I didn't have friends who would treat me right, they wouldn't be my true friend, would they?
2007-03-02 10:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the old saying keep your friends close and your enemies closer! They can still be your friend and talk on the phone just don"t hang out with them!!
2007-03-02 10:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋