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Ok this girl is seventeen years old, she was a major partier her first two years of high school, but at the beginning of her junior year she got pregnant and quit everything. After she had a miscarriage she was clean for about three months, but suddenly she has started doing it all again. She doesn't feel like she has much left to live for. She's been going to therapy and a physiciatrist but it hasn't seemed to help her feel better about who she is. She is an extremely beautiful girl, but she has also developed an eating disorder (i think). She only eats one meal a day and it's not very big. I'm concerned, how can I help her.

2007-03-02 10:13:33 · 9 answers · asked by banana_monster_22 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

9 answers

Sometimes we can't do anything about those things, but sometimes we can. Unfortunaltly you might not be able to convince her about much. You can pray for her and you can ask proffesionals to work with her longer.

2007-03-02 10:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Sometimes it's not the best idea to butt in to situations like this. The simple solution is to be a good friend to her, if she wants to talk with you - take the opportunity to. Don't assume she has an eating disorder right away, it's a bit of an invasion of privacy. If she's a good friend of yours, just get her outside to have some healthy fun.

2007-03-02 18:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by sebwitha3 2 · 0 0

She needs to have anti-depressants. Sounds like post-pardon is still kicking around in her mind. If she is seeing all those people, maybe she just needs a friend to tell her what you said here. Because the anchors in our lives are our friends. Sorry..can't help much. Good Luck though!

2007-03-02 18:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by ebay_convert 5 · 1 1

Depends on your relationship to her.

Just be the best friend you can be, listen to her, be there for her, and perhaps help her start high-school again, by finding private lessons for her, by motivating her, helping her figure out what she wants for her life.

2007-03-02 18:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be friends with her but don't assume stuff about her becuase if you tell her these assumptions she'll get mad and push you away. Have fun with her and be there for her when she starts trusting you she might tell you her feelings and why she does stuff. Maybe she's hurt becuase she lost her baby.

2007-03-02 22:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny0305 4 · 0 0

Be there for her. Remind her about what happened the last time. Involve her parents/guardian? Involve the school counsler? She may be mad at you, but it's better she's mad then dead

2007-03-02 19:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Talon F 2 · 0 0

THAT girl sounds an awful lot like if it was you.

2007-03-02 18:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

reach out to her..... befriend her..... tall her u r there for her and help her through this......

2007-03-02 18:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

be her friend

2007-03-02 18:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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