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Ok, me and my bff have been friends since 4th grade and lately we have been getting into ALOT of fights.. and they keep getting bigger and bigger. We've been friends for eight years and we've had fights but got over them soon after. Do you have any suggestions to make our friendship better? Please help. Thanks!!!

2007-03-02 10:02:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music Horoscopes

12 answers

Taurus and Scorpio

When Taurus and Scorpio come together, the result is two Signs opposite one another in the Zodiac so a blending of two halves. Signs in polarity such as these often combine to make a whole, each partner's strengths balancing the other's weaknesses. Signs in polarity often have a strong sexual attraction, and when they are together the barometer may rise! Taurus and Scorpio have a great deal in common, but because they have such powerful personalities this relationship is often one that goes back and forth from passionate love to passionate disagreement!

Taurus and Scorpio enjoy working together toward owning things: Taurus wants possessions and Scorpio wants power. Both of these Signs are about wealth and resources, including inheritances and taxes. They are both passionate about all aspects of life. They complement each other because Taurus is more about the self while Scorpio is about the immediate group, including family. Additionally, Taurus is more direct while Scorpio is mysterious. Because of their differences, both Signs can grow and learn from each other if they can agree to compromise.

Taurus is ruled by Venus and Scorpio is ruled by Mars and Pluto. This combination is very intense, thanks to Pluto's influence, but it's a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. The two Signs coming together form the basic foundation of human relationships -- Venus' love and Mars' passion. Venus and Mars go well together; Venus is about the beauty of romance, and Mars is about the passion of romance. Scorpio is smoldering and intense, and Taurus is attracted to this intensity; in turn, Scorpio enjoys the devotion inherent in Venus-ruled Taurus.

Taurus is an Earth Sign and Scorpio is a Water Sign. Scorpio is a very deep Sign; it's an ocean, and too much upset will cause a tidal wave! Scorpio emotionally recedes and recedes, then suddenly roars back with a vengeance. Taurus and Scorpio are strongly loyal to each other, a product of their mutual need for emotional security. But while Taurus is open, with everything laid bare on the surface, Scorpio is more focused on the undercurrents of life. Scorpio can show Taurus beyond the literal surface, while Taurus can teach Scorpio that a spade is sometimes just a spade. Additionally, Scorpio appreciates the Taurean practicality and Taurus enjoys Scorpio's jealousy -- it proves they are adored and appreciated.

Taurus and Scorpio are both Fixed Signs. Once they have a common goal, nothing will get in the way. If the opinions of these partners are different, though, explosions may ensue! It often appears that Taurus will get prevail as the dominant partner, but that isn't always the case. Sometimes Scorpio won't even agree to disagree, although they might pretend to give in and later gain revenge through emotional manipulation. It's important for these partners to discuss what is truly important to them so they can reach an equitable compromise. Once Scorpio learns to trust Taurus and understand the implications of a "partnership", the pair can achieve almost anything through sheer determination. The relationship will only fail if the two partners truly cannot overcome their opinionated, fixed sides.

The best aspect of the Taurus-Scorpio relationship is their powerful teamwork when they agree on their goals. When Scorpio realizes that Taurus is there for the long term, and will not create the misery that some Scorpios attract to their lives, this relationship can blossom. Their mutual determination makes theirs a relationship of formidable strength.

2007-03-05 07:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥gigi♥ 7 · 0 1

Since its different either way around...

Your Sign: Scorpio
Their sign: Tarus.

Scorpio is your astrological opposite, but that doesn't mean you can't form a friendship together. True, you're not a fan of Scorpio's evasions, while this sign doesn't appreciate your lack of curiosity. Still, you each possess qualities that the other admires. For instance, Scorpio delights in your sense of humor, while you're impressed with Scorpio's perceptiveness. You respect Scorpio's privacy and your friend applauds your financial sense. You long for Scorpio's passion, while your pal yearns for your leisurely approach. If you can withstand your pal's manipulative behavior, they'll ignore your stubbornness. The two of you may share an interest in wine-tasting, film and dance and often use these activities as a means to smooth over your many differences.

---OR---

Your sign: Tarus
Their sign: Scorpio

Although you and the Bull are astrological opposites, you can always trust this pal to keep a secret. That's no small matter for a private person like you. True, Taurus may seem totally insensible to your emotions at times, while you pay little heed to their need for comfort. But you have to admit, the Bull does possess a great sense of humor and can help you laugh when you'd otherwise cry. On the other hand, your uncanny intuition can help Taurus from making unfortunate mistakes, particularly with regard to love. The two of you may enjoy strenuous physical activities like weight lifting or rowing. Alternately, coin or stamp collecting might appeal to your love of detective work and Taurus's fondness for hoarding. Cooking can also be a powerful bond between you.

2007-03-02 10:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I cant tell you how to make the friendship better, but I don't really think you need suggestions on that. Seeing as to how long you two have been friends you already know what works. The fights probably getting bigger as you are getting older because of the stubborness of the Tauras and the headstrong sense of the Scorpio. DOnt worry this will pass just as all the other ones have you two will begin to see each others point of view without even realizing the you are becoming closer and the problems will work them selves out. I say this because I have been with a Scopio for 10 years...challenging but well worth it....Good luck..

2007-03-02 10:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am a Taurus and I have Scorpio friends, of cuz it works out, I admit in times it is totally misunderstanding, but sometimes it works out great..but we are never indifferent to what is going on...ok I will suggest you some ways if you would like you could apply.. So depends really you are the Taurus or the Scorpio but well ok I will devide it into two ways depending which side you belong to.

If you are the Taurus:

1st When you fight, never insult in return your Scorpio friend but give him to see he is hurting you by saying you didn't mean to fight, you care for him and you are not feeling well when he is harsh. He may act like he doesn't notice, just wait several days after he being sharp to you and you didn't respond to him bad, he will come to you and try to make you smile, laugh, just will try to make you feel good because this means he considers he have been wrong.

2nd Just distant yourself a bit for some time, week, two weeks, just say hi, how are you, show some concern but not so much, just like you care but you also have something else to engage your mind with, do not show you think much about your friendship and wait for some time, you will see the Scorpio will try to talk to you more and pay you more attention to you.

3d Show to your Scorpio friend he can trust you and that you will never misuse with his trust. Try to predispose your friend to share stuff with you, to tell you how he is feeling and in a good moment when he is in a good mood, you can catch him to discuss about your friendship concerns honestly and you can really have success after that discussion. Just try to understand when is the right moment to approach him for a serious talk.

4th Try to feel and understand why he reacts this way, what is under the surface, what cause this reaction and why, if he is irritated by something you did, ask him, the Scorpio will be direct in telling you. if you have been wrong and after thinking you consider the Scorpio is right, you can make the first approach to restore the things.

5th Respect your Scorpio friend and try never to offend his dignity (cuz they are proud) but also show him, he must respect you in return. Just draw a line between you two and know exactly where his place is and where is your place. Do not cross the line, you can be best friends for many years, just try to know to where he and you belong to and do not go into each other personal space, of cuz doesn't mean you can't share about personal matters, sure you can, just know your place into the friendship and define what is his place and do not change the places.

So I guess I wrote more about the case if you are the Taurus just because I am a Taurus and my friends are the Scorpios and I am not so sure how the things are from their point but I will try to give some advices in a case you are the Scorpio.

So if you are the Scorpio:

1st Show to your Taurus friend you appreciate him, he is liked and he has his place into your heart. When the Taurus is loved he will be always there for you in all the difficult situations.

2nd When you fight do not sting so much with your poison, if you are too harsh to him, later make him understand you care actually about your friendship. If the Taurus is sharp with you and later he says he is sorry he means he is sorry. If you are fighting with a Taurus keep in mind the Taurus is the weaker part in that fight so do not go over some limits in what you will say.

3d When criticizing the Taurus first tell him his good sides you like into him and then tell him openly about what you do not like in his character.

4th Do not distant yourself so much from the Taurus, better try to share some stuff with him and ask for advice, he will help you even if the previous day you been fighting.

5th The Taurus actually really admires the Scorpio when the Scorpio is strong and do not show weakness, so try to teach your Taurus friend to be more confident and to be strong as you are.

Last thing for the both signs, always remember the key words are 'respect' and 'honesty' if you never break out this words your friendship will be alright.

2007-03-02 11:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by Natalie 4 · 2 1

if your just talking about being a friend ( somebody you can trust )
then yes a scorpio can have a good friendship with a taurus.

2007-03-05 15:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Cloud 3 · 0 0

Unless there's compromise (both of you working to make it better) then it's going to be difficult. And as to whether the stars make you fight, that is an excuse that says we are incapable of changing bad behaviour. Neither of you should accept that.

2007-03-02 10:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Nicnac 4 · 1 0

You are both too stubborn.

Learn to forgive.

Taurus and Scorpio either attract or repel.

2007-03-02 10:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by zen 7 · 1 0

i am a scorpio and my best friend is a taraus or tarus or whatever. we have been best friends for a long time never one arguement

2007-03-02 11:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by rebeldiamonds 3 · 0 0

sure just compromise and dont expect romance in the future

2007-03-02 10:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

only two things 2 say:
Taurus is ur friend as long as you seem interesting to him/her
Scorpio is ur friend forever as long as u dont break his/her trust
as simple (and complicated) as that..(",)..!

2007-03-02 22:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by Rania 3 · 0 0

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