She is my best friend and we have this other friend. My best friend always took my side in everything and that's how she made our other friend feel bad and left out. Once I told my best friend that we should stop taking each other's sides and make her feel good too whenever she is with us. After that, my best friend is acting weird to me. My best friend is being rude to me and good to our other friend! What do i do now????
Helpful answer gets 10 points!!!
2007-03-02 09:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by Lil Ms. SunShine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am going to give you my suggesting, although, not to earn the points, but to really help you with your weird situation. If you have not spoken to your friend regarding her rudeness, it would be to your best interest spend more time with your other friend.
Explaining to her that (your first friend) why she is acting rude because you have persuade her not to leave her out and it hurt you feelings. If she is unreasonable to continue friendship, it is time to hang out with quality friends.
God Bless
2007-03-02 10:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your best friend probably enjoyed making your other friend feel bad. Now that you tell your best friend to be nice to your other friend she's probably nice to your other friend because she wants to make you jealous. just talk to them at the same time and ask them what's up.
2007-03-02 17:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by cinderella12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out. stick around and hang out as much as possible, but dont be too overbearing with them. (dont try to butt in when you feel like your not wanted) They will get tired of each other soon, and your friend will come back to you. I promise, this will work. Its just part of growing up.
2007-03-02 18:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by Charles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should get her off to the side and really talk to her. let her know that she doesn't have to be mean to you to make your other friend feel good and she doesn't have to be mean to the other friend to be nice to you.
2007-03-02 18:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bff is obviously not on the same page with you. Talk to her again and explain it like you did with us!
Best Wishes ;)
2007-03-02 17:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try convicing the other friend that your best friend side is on and tell her what she is doing is wrong and hurting your friendship
2007-03-02 17:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ur friend is definetly leaving u for ur other friend. U should let her noe that she is leaving u for the other friend.This happend to me and i just let my friend noe wat i though. afterwards she changed and was the same old friend i knew. Try it. If u need more advice email me at babygirl143rd@yahoo.com
2007-03-02 17:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by Marlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you're sorry and tell her she's still your bestest friend in the whole world
2007-03-02 17:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Martin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her. ask her how she will feel when she is left.
2007-03-02 17:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by HoT_AzN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋