I'm around 5'2, not fat, not skinny, more like in the middle. Sorry to sound vain but I am beautiful. Everyone tells me I am, I have alot of guy friends but no guys seem to be interested in me......
2007-03-02 09:50:38 · 20 answers · asked by blue 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I'm around 5'2, not fat, not skinny, more like in the middle. Sorry to sound vain but I am beautiful. Everyone tells me I am, I have alot of guy friends but no guys seem to be interested in me......
UPDATE: I have guy friends but my best friends are all girls. I dress cute, have a great personality, I'm not stuck up, im 16. I talk to all the guys and im very lively or funny but still I guess I'm not any of their types....? I don't go around looking for guys and am not desperate, I just don't understand why none of them like me....
2007-03-02 10:12:43 · update #1
i will tell you why there are three types of guys when it comes to dating and girls there are guys like me that are very shy and afraid of getting rejected (that dosent mean we dont know about or being romantic) then there are the guys that think girls just want money or popularity by dating them then there are the guys that are normal and will ask you out if they like you sounds like you are around mostly the first two. heres some advice look for guys that you might like then watch to see if any of them act funny around you like little glanses when your not looking then try and make the list of those people down to a cople of people and then
you make a move by asking them if they want to get lunch or something and go from there
if i knew you i might even date you so dont feel down
2007-03-02 10:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by ohmygodtheykilldkenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you like yourself? Do you have self confidence? Are you interested and empathtic with others? Or do you send out needy vibes?
I would sit down with the guy friends and ask some hard questions about how other people perceive you and be prepared to hear unpleasant things. If you genuinely want to be more attractive to guys, you have to be more focused with what's inside first. If you can give yourself an attitude adjustment, then you are ready to meet the world. Put yourself in a position to meet guys in a non-threatening way--with sports, with hobbies, with classes, with volunteering. Let your friends know that you are open to meeting new friends, and then let things evolve like they have since the beginning of time. Good-luck.
2007-03-02 18:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by smallbizperson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are only 5'2", that's a perfect height. What's missing is your strategy. Your attitude projects the idea that you are well aware of how good you look. That won't work with most guys, who are basically insecure. Great looking woman but unapproachable.
I recommend that you find ways to be interested in the best attributes of the guys - truthfully of course. Tall, handsome, smart, athletic, interesting, a challenge - whatever you see. ASK them about themselves and just listen.
2007-03-02 17:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you. Maybe they guys around you are too young to really approach a girl. Or perhaps you are so beautiful the guys you know think that your not on their level. Just be your self and guys will start to see what you have to offer.
2007-03-02 17:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you tried changing? I mean, come on! If your normal self dont work for the fellaz, try a whole new you and change to something that do work. But mabey change everyday, a variates of attitudes and get a boy to be wondering----You'll never know!
2007-03-02 18:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by !l0L! .. XD. ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really beautiful, that could be the problem. Some men are intimidated by a very beautiful woman. They feel they are not in your "league". It's stupid. It's insecure. But it's real. You will find someone, maybe it will be one of your friends. Good luck.
May God Bless you.
2007-03-02 17:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried approaching guys instead of waiting for them to come to you? Maybe you seem really self-confident and that intimidates them. Being sweet and flirty helps too! Not slutty, flirty. There's a big difference. Try battin' them lashes.
2007-03-02 17:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry_Fire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you prob. actually are stuck up, since you posted this, & mentioned that you are "beautiful"... sorry i don't know you, but I'm sure there's just something about you they don't dig...think before you talk, & get interested in the stuff that guys you like are interested in...be yourself...[unless you are snobby] lol
2007-03-02 18:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful disaster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you act more like one of the guys an thats why you have alot of guy friends. Just wait when you least excpect it a guy will come to you. When i was least exspection it the guy im with now found me and now were ingaged!
2007-03-02 17:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they think you're too good for them, and they're too scared to ask you out because guys HATE being rejected. Maybe you should make some moves. I have to do this myself, because I know guys hate being rejected.
2007-03-02 18:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋