ok im a bi girl... and i used to like this girl in my class and she found out i liked her and she would never let it go and she would ALWAYS call me freak and stuff like that... and i kept telling her i didnt like her... but then over the summer she sent me an IM and told me she liked me but i wasnt sure if she meant it or even knew i got it... cuz she kept denying it... and kept calling me freak.... but then i finally stoped liking her a few weeks ago... and ever since i stopped liking her... i have noticed her looking at me more than she ususally dose... like today in gym class i was behind her and she kept look back at me and i got soo annoyed yet confused... and during class every time i glance her way i see her looking at me.... and she kept giving me this hott look... like a look sum1 gives when they think the person they are looking at is hott... and i dont like her but i o think shes sexy... but is she checking me out? or what?
2007-03-02 09:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by i am the one and only me 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hm...sounds like high school.
Okay..advice. She might just be confused with her sexuality. In some instances, she might give you a look, a sexy look, or just any look to comply with her own actions.
It may be that she has to hide from it, because she doesn't want to be discriminated against, but she really does like you.
You need to control this. Thing of it is, is that she may know that you don't care for her anymore like you did. So now, she is trying to get you to come back to it, because maybe she likes the attention.
Just ignore it. Pretend like she is any other girl out there. Pretend like, nothing matters to you and start liking someone else.
If in the event she keeps it up, or starts following you everywhere, or making you feel like your being stalked in a sense, in a group of people, turn around and say.."I thought you thought I was a freak, why do you have to keep staring at me and making me think you like me or something?"
Number one, she will learn that if she calls you a freak, it will turn back to her.
Just because she is hot, doesn't mean you have to take her abuse. Its not right.
2007-03-02 09:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say she does, but also I think she's a bit confused about her sexual orientation. I'd just back off and let her look kinda like "yeah you can't have me" kinda attitude because I'd never date another girl who called me a freak then all the sudden started looking at me 24/7. Mainly because she's confusing you sending you mixed messages. I'd leave her alone or actually find out what her problem is I wouldn't date her though because you might just get hurt in the end. Because she's confused sending you mixed emotions.
2007-03-02 17:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to reitterate what's already been said because I'm bored and this is actually a legitimate question.
Yes, she's checking you out, sweetie. However, I wouldn't jump on that wagon because she really seems to be in denial and she's got issues. You always want what you can't have, too, so... yea...
2007-03-02 18:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like she might like you. But really, it also sounds like she has some issues to work through. I would stay away, far, far away from this chick. There are many more fish in the ocean. Its a huge ocean you know.
2007-03-02 17:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she likes you but im a guy so i cant really understand that but i wish i was a girl and i was a lesbian girl that would be awsome in the lockers oh well im not that lucky but maybe she loves you but is ashemed to accept she is a lesbian or bio? yeah she is cheking you out
2007-03-02 18:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Frankie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her gay *** likes u
2007-03-02 17:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by tweety's girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋