Is it possible to hate someone because you love them so much?
2007-03-02 09:22:19 · 15 answers · asked by HONZ H 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes-its call the love/hate paradox. Emotionally love/hate are very similar--one is positive--the other is negative
2007-03-02 09:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by j.wisdom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A love-hate relationship is between two people who refuse to accept the liking of each other or the enjoyment of one another's presence, or have some sort of previous resentment or bitterness between each other. The couple usually holds a weak grudge towards one another creating a feud between emotional depression and happily ever after.[citation needed] The relationship is held together by the hatred each person conjures when feeling incomparable to the other's perfection. This anger is the cover up for the "love" part of the relationship because the couple dislikes social knowledge of the affair. The hate is also powered by the teasing of each person while the frustration reaches its maximum level through the restriction on releasing their sexual tension and intimacy.
On the other hand, the relationship may be held together entirely by insecurity; the people in the relationship may believe that (for some reason or another) they are "unable to live without" one another, and knowing no other existence but with each other, choose the certainty of staying together over the risk of leaving. The two people in such a relationship are totally incompatible, but believe that they are both with the best person for themselves that they are going to get
2007-03-02 09:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I love my partner more than I have ever loved anything. At first it was better than chocolate. But now after 5 years I don't know where the love slipped out and the hate began, but i know i still have more love than ever at the same time.
2007-03-02 13:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by FaErYgIrL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. I am actually in that situation. I don't honestly thin we hate these people though. I think we hate the feeling of loving them so much.
2007-03-02 09:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No love and hate are two different items. Love is a pure emotion, its the rest of the emotions fighting like jealousy envy etc that breeds hate :-)
2007-03-02 09:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think what you're dealing with is a conflict in extreme emotions. The passion you feel for the person drives this.
Just be careful not to say hurtful things during this time of high emotions. Words can never be taken back.
Good luck.
2007-03-02 09:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is. I switch between them, absolute love, and when I realize it will never happen I first am so sad... but then there is anger and yes, sometimes I really hate him, for loving me too and then leaving me be...... and then I love him again... Oh, how I do....
2007-03-02 09:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a fine line between love and hate.
If you fear losing this person,you may feel hate because it feels better than fear.
2007-03-02 09:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think that makes sense. If you love someone, you dont hate them at all.
2007-03-02 09:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
u think u hate that person b/c you know u can't have them back - which hurts, hurts really bad. this is called ego in some ways.
2007-03-02 09:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by ~Mevsim~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋